is it normal to want an older man?

[smackie9]

Daddy issues.....If it's just about sex I'm sure he'll love to bang you, but if you want more I will tell you, you will have very little in common, not to metion when you are out in public people will call him "Your father". Have fun with that.

[coedmary18]

And my parents divorced when I was young and my father wasn't around too much. But that's true of a lot of people.

[Guybrush]

He has a male room mate.

I'm sorry, but he is gay. Problem solved.

[coedmary18]

Maybe I'll turn him ;-)

He looks like Dr Drew from TV. No bald or beer gut.

[Wakeup]

Daddy issues

Me thinks so too that's why I asked her what her relationship was with her father.

@ Mary: Google "Daddy Issues" and read it with a grain of salt. It just might give you a reason why you find some old man more attractive then young men closer to your own age.

If he needs pill, I'll bring them along!

Have you had sex yet?

[Guybrush]

Maybe I'll turn him ;-)

Good luck with that!

Then recommend his flat mate to seek out our "broken hearts" forum. Should be interesting.

[coedmary18]

Yes I had sex and even got pregnant when I was sixteen. The guy (my age!) was a total asshole and refused to use a condom.

That's the thing - I don't see really young guys as being that fantastic. Mainly beer drinking sex addicts.

And I have a female room mate. In seperate bed rooms. Does that make me lesbian?

[searock]

So he refused to wear a condom and you went along with it anyway? That makes you just as immature and sex-addicted (?). So you're a single mother, or did you have an abortion?

Just because you've had negative experiences with guys your age in the past doesn't mean that:
a) all your peers are bad persons (immature and whatnot);
b) older men are any better.

Stop hanging out with the guys you currently hang out with. Meet new people - surely there are some intelligent and more mature guys your age (or early- mid-twenties) in college?

[coedmary18]

Yes, I just said so.

[searock]

Yes, I just said so.

Sorry, I read that only after I had already posted my question. I edited my post now.

[coedmary18]

Maybe I should bring him a cup of coffee with Viagra mixed into it? And then ask if i can sit on his lap while he drinks it? lol

[searock]

And to think I was giving heartfelt advice. *Sigh*

[Wakeup]

lol ,, maybe you should learn to say NO to a guy that won't wear a condom.. lol

[coedmary18]

I'm sorry, I don't want to go into what happened. I'm not a single mother and I was really stupid. It was just awful.

[coedmary18]

This guy just seems nice, mature, repsectful. I feel he's someone I can trust. I think he might feel I'm special and care about me. I don't feel that with young guys usually.