Smackie, the guy is not uncertain. He definitely doesn't want to marry her. OP should do everyone a favor and give the kid up for adoption then commit suicide.
Smackie, the guy is not uncertain. He definitely doesn't want to marry her. OP should do everyone a favor and give the kid up for adoption then commit suicide.
You want love but you don't even know what it means to have love. Love if not manipulating and deceiving the ppl you claim to love. Love is respecting the person you love and their wishes. the person you supposedly love wishes is not to be married to you. Respect that.
Even if you've manipulated your bf to the point if marriage, who is to say you will have a happy one. He will probably go off and cheat on you with hotter, younger girls because he never wanted to marry you in the first place. Would you rather have that? But hey... You'll have a house, and a kid and a husband.
Life 101: husband + kid doesn't equal good life.
Husband + kid makes her feel she has some worth....sad.
If he is not marring you with then just leave him.