Need advice - what to do next?

[pcmaster]

Its all about who will do more with her. Sometimes girl that you been hitting on for months gets banged in first night by some random guy who just go for it. In your case it could be kissing instead. Great that you not worried cause its best think that other guys dont exist. Instead concentrade on the girl like theres only two people on this planet.

Good luck, you will need it a lot.

[smackie9]

I realize that :L But like I said she's not the kind of girl who will just go and get with a guy like that (he's a bit of a twat).

That's what girls usually go for....they end up going for the jerk (truly the dude who has the most confidence wins).

[Boisdevie]

But like I said she's not the kind of girl who will just go and get with a guy like that (he's a bit of a twat).

You're worried he's going to get in her pants aren't you?

[HeartIsAching]

'course he is.

[HK-LFL]

You're worried he's going to get in her pants aren't you?

Pretty much haha.

[HeartIsAching]

Pretty much haha.

A+ for honesty.

[smackie9]

If he does then she is that kind of girl.

[HK-LFL]

If he does then she is that kind of girl.

It's more my own personal issues in terms of how much I worry when it comes to things like this, I tend to overthink alot.

[smackie9]

I'm pointing out guys that get infatuated, put that girl up on a pedestal....when in reality she is just like anyone else.

[smackie9]

It's more my own personal issues in terms of how much I worry when it comes to things like this, I tend to overthink alot.

Most do when in love.....that's why it's best to save the feelings for when you are in a relationship. Your best bet is to fill your days with activities with friends....keep busy!

[toknow]

Smackie, you talk about love like it's something you can put in your pocket...so naive...

HK, do what feels natural and remember things are not as bad as they may feel at the time. She is not the only girl on this planet, remember that and it will help you not to act like she is.

[smackie9]

STFU. ............the young are so naive *sigh*.

[HeartIsAching]

Youth is wasted on the young.

[HK-LFL]

Thought I'd update this.

Basically, she came back and texted me straight away which showed that she might seem interested. We started talking every day like we used to, then we went to this party last night. We spent alot of the night talking and her friends were clearly hinting at me that she might like me and stuff like that, and it seemed like things were going really well. Unfortunately, she sent me a text a couple of hours ago saying that she realised last night that she thinks we're better off as friends. Naturally this news was pretty gutting to hear, but obviously I can't force her to feel the same way that I do.

Really, really hard to hear and just feeling quite down. Any tips on getting over someone? Haha.

[michelle23]

Forget her and move on. Dont blother wasting your time being friends. Rejection is normal and it will just help you to find someone better for you.

In future if you like a girl-just ask her out. If she says no-fine-move onto the next one lol. All this time wasted becoming her friend first just to get rejected is s kick in the balls.

Make it easier for yourself and good luck