Badly in need of advice

[Deepak]

Wish I could do something which can make her mine. :-/

[michelle23]

The best thing you can do is cut her out of your life and accept she will not be yours. then you can grieve the loss, get over her and in time you will be ready to meet someone else.

That is the best advice I can give you. Its your choice whether you take it or not

[Deepak]

Thanks all for your suggestion. But I am not sure whether I should forget her or not. I just can't do it. I love her truly. I am emotional. I can't even imagine losing her. How can I make her understand that I love her more than myself? I have to do something but I don't know what.

[michelle23]

You cant force her to feel the same way. It doesn't work that way.

[Deepak]

I am not planning to force her to love me. I know that won't work. I am just trying to find some way by which I can her how much I love her. Not sure which is the right way.

[michelle23]

why do you want to declare your love just to make her feel awkward and reject you again?

[Wakeup]

You cant force her to feel the same way. It doesn't work that way.

... and we can't force him to take our advice either, odd enough.

Anyway, Op she'll be gone in 10 days and once she's gone you'll learn to live without her in your life just like we learn to live without loved ones who have died. Once you get to the stage of acceptance then you'll be able to love another but you'll be that much more wiser and you won't give your love to someone who only treats you platonically.

Good luck, you will be fine.