I am 22, she is 17.

[Illusional]

whoa.. as of right now, i personally wouldn't date anyone 4 years younger than me, but there are always acceptions. personally i agree that you should wait with her atleast until she's 18. when she's 18, it won't matter what anyone else thinks.

if you both feel that you can't wait and want to be together now, i say f*ck it and nevermind what other thinks. i wouldn't agree with it, but when it really comes down to it, it's your lives and no one elses.

raverboy

[blinksinator]

whoa.. as of right now, i personally wouldn't date anyone 4 years younger than me, but there are always acceptions. personally i agree that you should wait with her atleast until she's 18. when she's 18, it won't matter what anyone else thinks.

if you both feel that you can't wait and want to be together now, i say f*ck it and nevermind what other thinks. i wouldn't agree with it, but when it really comes down to it, it's your lives and no one elses.

raverboy

that is what i ultimately decided... have gotten a few "robbing the cradle" comments, but everyone in her family is okay with it, and i am more and more okay with it every time we see eachother. i have had a few serious relationships in my day, and none of them started this well - as far as waiting till 18 to date, i would agree if dating = sex. i just dont know how long i could invite her over as a friend and knowing we like eachother without kissing her. anyway, my point about bumping and posting again was to say that all is great, and i couldnt be happier with the situation, and that i appreciate the help.

[JoGorilla]

that is what i ultimately decided... have gotten a few "robbing the cradle" comments, but everyone in her family is okay with it, and i am more and more okay with it every time we see eachother. i have had a few serious relationships in my day, and none of them started this well - as far as waiting till 18 to date, i would agree if dating = sex. i just dont know how long i could invite her over as a friend and knowing we like eachother without kissing her. anyway, my point about bumping and posting again was to say that all is great, and i couldnt be happier with the situation, and that i appreciate the help.

Right on man. Good luck.

[WtdAgent]

I have read somewhere that best age range between married couple is 4 years. So don't worry. She will grow up soon and you will forget about this problem

[Illusional]

when you're 60... all this shit won't even matter anymore. well it won't matter a long time before you reach this age, but then it's always best to think of the shittiest senario, then cherrish the better when it happens.

raverboy