Really confused by his hot and cold actions....i could use some advice.

[Mefree143]

Thank you guys!!

[michelle23]

did you talk to him?

[Mefree143]

:-) thank you I will

[Mefree143]

Oh that was delayed. Lol sorry! Well were supposed to meet on Sunday...he's really hot and cold im telling you. I was really hurt, obviously because I made an account on here so I could talk to people about it. I really don't want to ride the rollercoaster....especially since I'm noticing how insecure I really am about it all. I care a lot for him, but no I'm not trying to be a rebound!! I just wanted to know he cares for me...:/ Yesterday a friend of mine that seems to like me alot made a comment that I had tagged R on from when we went to eat, and the comment was saying how come I dont give him a chance, I'm a heartbreaker, he just wants to spoil me (my friend that likes me, not R) and then R replied to it saying "That's just too funny" :/ I guess it was pretty amusing! But I deluded myself into thinking he cared....but I haven't talked to him since! I sent him a text saying how embarrassing and I was going to delete it...and all I got was crickets. He just finally responded today, very brief and cut short. I'm just not going to think about it anymore...I'm not a teenager I'm a grown up woman with responsibilities and I know I'm a good catch. I need a little work on my confidence...and that's what I'm going to focus on. He doesn't want to "Label what we have" so I need to take a hint. He's just really not that into me. Thank you guys do much for redresponding to my post....I really have put things into perspective :-) You are all good people!,

[michelle23]

Glad you have figured everything out best of luck with everything

[smackie9]

Good now that you cut the crap out you can move on....good call Mefee143

[4 ratties]

It really just sounds like he wants to take things slow because of his recent breakup. Nothing wrong with that, shows he's a responsible smart person. He likes ya just a lil scared and wanna take things slow

[michelle23]

It really just sounds like he wants to take things slow because of his recent breakup. Nothing wrong with that, shows he's a responsible smart person. He likes ya just a lil scared and wanna take things slow

In this life-you dont waste time waiting around for someone who is emotionally unavailable. You will end up firmly in the friendzone or just a rebound. Its not worth it

[smackie9]

Guys are not like women and get "scared" to have a relationship....if there is an offering of a vigina they are going to take it if it is desirable to them.