Virgin girl at 30, what do Western men think?

[surfhb2]

It would be a red flag for me but it all depends on the girl. Just tell him straight up....if he really likes you he wont care.

[surfhb2]

I think you are a creep, searock. And if you think being pure is creepy, then there is something majorly wrong with you.

And you can only speculate what most men prefer, since you don't know most men. So, your advice is as good as throwing the dice.

Well ive known alot of men in my life and never heard one talk about how pure and great a girls virginity is. Beyond creepy!

[michelle23]

he means he likes virgins.

OP be careful. while most men are decent and kind you are vulnerable to falling into the hands of a predator. make sure you fully trust a guy before you tell him your a virgin. avoid narcissistic men who think its alright for them to f**k anything with a pulse but want a pure virgin wife. men like that will absolutely destroy. find a nice guy who is the "relationship type" who will treat you right

[YoungCosmo]

I think you are a creep, searock. And if you think being pure is creepy, then there is something majorly wrong with you.

And you can only speculate what most men prefer, since you don't know most men. So, your advice is as good as throwing the dice.

Your virgin fetish is symptomatic of being one real creepy son of a bitch..

[toknow]

surfhb2 and YoungCosmo, your words mean nothing. They are useless, senseless dust in the wind.

And it's funny this is coming from a guy who recently started a thread asking girls to see their breasts on skype. Talk about a creep.
Apparently you didn't get the brain transplant you so desperately need.

[smackie9]

I say don't tell him. Really you don't NEED to reveal anything to him, it's your personal choice. Just tell him later and explain you had this anxiety about making things awkward.

I never did and just carried on with it.

[surfhb2]

surfhb2 and YoungCosmo, your words mean nothing. They are useless, senseless dust in the wind.

And it's funny this is coming from a guy who recently started a thread asking girls to see their breasts on skype. Talk about a creep.
Apparently you didn't get the brain transplant you so desperately need.

Cool! Neither do yours......there's such balance in nature

[Empty Road]

What do you mean by that?

Virgins are rare, so is winning the lottery and you're happy when you hit it.

[searock]

Virgins are rare, so is winning the lottery and you're happy when you hit it.

Seriously? You'd actually like to sleep with a virgin woman? Do you remember what it was like!?

[Empty Road]

Seriously? You'd actually like to sleep with a virgin woman? Do you remember what it was like!?

It's not about the sex.

[searock]

It's not about the sex.

Then what's it about? Being a creep who gets off from "deflowering" girls? Cause you know that's creepy as fück, right?

[Empty Road]

Then what's it about? Being a creep who gets off from "deflowering" girls? Cause you know that's creepy as fück, right?

You're still thinking about the sex. It's not about that. I'll let you figure this one out.

[searock]

I already know, it's because you're one of those creeps who think that it's actually a good thing if their partner has slept with NO ONE ELSE EVER before them. Insecurity much? It's just plain creepy and pathetic.

[searock]

Being virgin doesn't mean being "pure". Having sex, per se, has nothing to do with a person's moral character.

[Empty Road]

You're pretty judgmental. Too much assumptions.