Shall I go or stay?

[whaywardj]

That should be a clue, Asip. Raise the bar.

[shh!]

This thread leaves me speechless.

[whaywardj]

Okay.


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She never did ask a question, did she?

[shh!]

I don't know - I think it was the standard "I just don't get why he treats me like crap" story, or some version of the same.

[artyemi]

I usually make a girl one of those gift baskets..They seem to enjoy it much more With many different things like candy, chocolate, coffee and so on.

You must be a master at distraction then?

[artyemi]

I don't know - I think it was the standard "I just don't get why he yreats me like crap" story, or some version of the same.

But he didn't treat her like crap. He just said he's confused and she doesn't want to deal with these feelings of doubts anymore.

And she's asking what should she do.

And she already answered it.

[ritehereritenow]

Thanks, douloveme613. I just don't think he did anything wrong, so he didn't need to say sorry to me. Yep, he is not passionate enough and told me he is confused. But that's what it is.

I am in love w/ him, that's why I can put a lot of efforts in this relationship and keep trying. But I don't know how much longer I can keep doing this. And i believe this kinda feelings stuff will happen again in the future if we stay together.

[artyemi]

How much more of it do you think you can take?

[ritehereritenow]

No, he treats me ok. He is a nice guy and everybody likes him. He just gets confused easily and acts differently. He thinks too much and overanalyzes things! Very defensive in a relationship. That's why I get dissappinted in this relationship. I just want to love someone who loves me.

I don't know - I think it was the standard "I just don't get why he yreats me like crap" story, or some version of the same.

[Tone]

Then how can you say he treats you okay?

You have every right to want to be with someone who cares for you the same you do for them.

[ritehereritenow]

Ahh?What did I say?

And she already answered it.

[artyemi]

"I just want to love someone who loves me. I don't want to deal with this "feelings" stuff again and again, maybe it's time for me to leave..."

That is what you said.

[ritehereritenow]

I told him I am tired of this. And I don't think he will stop thinking too much. Next time he tells me feelings change or he is confused again, he is gone absolutely. But I don't know if I should even wait till then.

How much more of it do you think you can take?

[ritehereritenow]

Oh
I said "MAYBE"...

"I just want to love someone who loves me. I don't want to deal with this "feelings" stuff again and again, maybe it's time for me to leave..."

That is what you said.

[artyemi]

I hadn't realize you're from Boston. That's cool.

Remember that he is the way he is. He will always continue to think too much.

If this is the second time and you're already tired of it, then.....