Crying over a girl - in front of her or on the phone

[clynn]

Try not to beat yourself up over it.

You expressed yourself, as you said, you're an emotional guy.

if she doesn't want to be with you anymore.....It won't change the situation one way or the other...whether you had or hadn't cried. So it really is just all about you now.

So, in the future, if unfortunatley something like this ever happens again, maybe try to save the crying until AFTER you get off the phone. But its okay to be expressive too. That's part of who and what you are. But we don't like to beg. Definitely don't do that. But if this is the first time you've had your heartbroken, well, what can I say? Many of us have been there!

[exclamationpoii]

It's okay to cry but it's what you do afterwards that makes all the difference. If you two call it quits.. do not attempt to stir back up a relationship. It will only turn her off and make her feel guilty.

[Junket]

It's okay to cry but it's what you do afterwards that makes all the difference. If you two call it quits.. do not attempt to stir back up a relationship. It will only turn her off and make her feel guilty.

Where did you come from?

[missguided.rose]

I think if you were crying because you were genuinly sorry that things were ending between you its not pathetic.. its an emotion and you're allowed to cry.People react differently in certain situations, but the begging is going a bit too far. If I was you I probably would've hung up, thought about it, regained my composure and called her back to talk about it. However, whats done is done, and all I can say is there are more fishies in the big wide ocean.. or is it the sea? Either way *passes you a fishing rod* ^_^

[touchmenot]

You cried because you care. that is all.

[Junket]

You cried because you care. that is all.

Regardless it doesn't help the situation.