Errr..no. There was actually a practical reasons for my post. I don't care to impress anyone here. lolOriginally Posted by Wakeup
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08-09-13, 04:34 AM #16
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A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
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08-09-13, 04:36 AM #17
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Whatever YC. I am not a slut so I don't even know where you are going with that. Originally Posted by YoungCosmo
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
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08-09-13, 04:39 AM #18
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Being a "slut" has nothing to do with contracting an STI/STD. Are you being safe when you blow these guys? Are you seeing up to date screening reports from these guys you're doing everything but penile penetration with? Originally Posted by fearoflove
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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08-09-13, 04:40 AM #19
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Your actions and verbage certainly say otherwise. Originally Posted by fearoflove
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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08-09-13, 04:42 AM #20
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I am familiar with the term "slut". I have only "blown" 2 guys in my lifetime. And yes, I am very safe and sees recent reports before I do anything with them that can put me at risk. Originally Posted by Wakeup
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
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08-09-13, 04:46 AM #21
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That'a good girl. Originally Posted by fearoflove
P.S Stop perpetuating a antiquated term like "slut." It's bad enough when men use it. It's vile when women do. To a virgin, a real one, one that is chaste in all ways sexual and doesn't blow uncommitted guys, you could be viewed as a "slut." How crappy is that thought to you?“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
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08-09-13, 04:49 AM #22
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The same "real" virgin may consider even thinking about sex as "slutty". I don't care too much about these extreme expectations. Originally Posted by Wakeup
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
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08-09-13, 04:52 AM #23
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Men must perceive you as a slut (assuming for the second time that you're a real girl although I have my doubts still..). Little tip: guys use the "l" word when DATING when they think their dates are sluts but sluts who only put out when the word is dropped. Besides, it's pretty slutty to be dating multiple men ALL the time. Quite irresponsible, too; if more people had dating habits like this, diseases would affect pretty much every dating person in the world. Originally Posted by fearoflove
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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08-09-13, 04:59 AM #24
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Dating doesn't necessarily mean putting out. I don't think there is anything wrong with dating multiple men in the beginning. It sure saves me a lot of heartache and helps me find the best guy for me. Honestly, never been happier with my dating life once I have started dating multiple men. Originally Posted by YoungCosmo
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
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08-09-13, 05:02 AM #25
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No need to quess who pays in these dates. Originally Posted by fearoflove
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will
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08-09-13, 05:05 AM #26
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Exactly. It's pretty damn wrong. Originally Posted by pcmaster
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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08-09-13, 05:07 AM #27
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Actually, not every guy I date pays for dates. I would still date a guy who doesn't pay for dates if I like him enough and if he has a good reason (such as not being able to because he is broke). But not going to lie, it feels freaking awesome to be taken out on a date. Originally Posted by pcmaster
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
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08-09-13, 05:07 AM #28
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All the kissing? Transmission of disease? It's pretty wrong when you're seeing multiple men, some of whom assuredly hope the dating phase advances to something more serious yet all along, you're just workingyour disingenuous hidden plan and just stringing men along is wrong. Originally Posted by fearoflove
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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08-09-13, 05:08 AM #29
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See, it's lies like this that has most convinced you're just some gay kid. Originally Posted by fearoflove
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
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08-09-13, 05:10 AM #30
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I kissed many men but I haven't caught anything. I don't feel like I am being disingenuous. If I don't feel anything for him, I won't go on another date. If one of them wanted to be more serious or straight out ask if I am dating other men, I don't lie about it. Originally Posted by YoungCosmo
A strong woman takes advantage of help she can get from people around her but she doesn't rely on them for anything
She uses logic and manages her emotions
She offers help either because it is a business transaction or out of kindness. It is never because she hopes others will return the favour or out of fear of losing them
She has her own mind and thinks for herself and knows that she has to be the one who bears the consequences of her decisions
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