So, is this what dating is really like...?

[Indestructible]

Do you not have a social life? Hang out with friends? Have a hobby, an interest, something you like to do in your spare time? If you don't go out and do stuff then how can you meet someone? Socializing at an event, a pub, a concert, festival, museum, library, bookstore, coffee shop.....gives you the opportunity to meet, and chat with...then if you make a connection you ask for their number so you can ask them on a date. that's how it's done.

Nah, no real social life. Never been good at making friends. I've been trying, but it just doesn't happen. In particular, I've been trying to become better friends with some people I know for like the last year. Every now and then, they'll invite me to something, but that's rare; if I try to set something up and invite people, no one is ever interested. So, I don't really have people to go places with, and it just seems weird to me to go places and do things alone.

The hobbies and interests I have are mostly just things I enjoy by myself, nothing that really gets me out meeting people, unfortunately.

[Agnus]

So, I don't really have people to go places with, and it just seems weird to me to go places and do things alone.

Go to volunteer. When I volunteered last time at the convent all the nuns became my friends especially Mother Superior.

[vashti]

Women are attracted on subconscious level. For example, I though how beautiful the lady at the gym was imagining how marvelous sex with her might be. And she somehow felt that. When she lost hope that I would ever approach, she started yelling at me right in the gym in front of her coach who looked extremely uncomfortable. But I had no intention to actually fk her. I didn't even know her name. On the other hand, that's how bitches let know they are in love.

Yeah, that's my strategy. I didn't realize it was so transparent, especially to old, unattractive women like yourself.

[Agnus]

Yeah, that's my strategy. I didn't realize it was so transparent, especially to old, unattractive women like yourself.

Why? I am a man. The guys always ask to give them massage and say that I am way too sexy. I've never known there are so many gays around like yourself.

[Boisdevie]

Nah, no real social life. Never been good at making friends.

This kind of implies that your social skills are crap. Going on dates involves using your social skills. Ergo, if you have sod all social skills any dates you go on are a waste of time.
Fix yourself first.

[YoungCosmo]

What REALLY sucks about how dating works is, getting to know a girl first before asking her out means you LISTENED to her which means you're friendzone'ed/her emotional tampon. Once you actually give a shit about what women say, you're done for.

[YoungCosmo]

Fix yourself first.

That's BS. A girlfriend could fix a guy.

[basilandthyme]

That's BS. A girlfriend could fix a guy.

Girlfriend wants a guy who's not broken

[YoungCosmo]

Then why do a lot of girls like guys who have been in prison? Or, at the least, have huge insecurity issues even worse than I do?

[basilandthyme]

What REALLY sucks about how dating works is, getting to know a girl first before asking her out means you LISTENED to her which means you're friendzone'ed/her emotional tampon. Once you actually give a shit about what women say, you're done for.

So, I seek you're back in dickhead mode. I really enjoyed reading what you were writing while you had that recent pleasant stage.

[YoungCosmo]

It's a fact. Women don't like their dates listening to them.

[basilandthyme]

Then why do a lot of girls like guys who have been in prison? Or, at the least, have huge insecurity issues even worse than I do?

I don't know anyone who fits this description.

[basilandthyme]

No more help or support from me till you stop being a dickhead.

[YoungCosmo]

I don't know anyone who fits this description.

Maybe it's different over there.

[YoungCosmo]

No more help or support from me till you stop being a dickhead.

What? It isn't my fault this is the way things are.