
Originally Posted by
Sportsman44
Thank you Rowen... Put it in a new perspective. I feel I should wait tho, I honestly beleive that we both feel we're meant to
Be together... She just needs to figure her stuff out. Trying to stay optimistic
You, should really listen to Backup's advise and get yourself other chicks to "bang." You have emotional connection to her which is going to shred you when you enable her to be uncommitted to you by "hooking" up 3 times a week. Doing that gives her absolutely NO, NONE, NADDA reason to ever commit to you. Why would she when you enabler her not to have to.
Get yourself some other options and don't put all your balllzzz in this one basket. You need to take back your power and make it so she's framing you as the prize rather then the current where you've totally given her all your power by framing her as the one and only prize to be gotten. There is where you've made your mistake.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion