thanks all for answering don't have time to reply to each today will try this weekend. but i had a ldr ex threaten to hurt herself and i spent a month or about calling IMing texting with her, got one of her brothers and friend involved too since they are there and i wasn't.
it was stressful and she wasn't doing it over me - she was about her bf after me but he ****ed off so she took it to her most recent ex next to him which was me. lucky me tryign to help overseas. and we only met 3 times in the year we quasi dated because ldr's weren't for me, most was phone and skype. i think she wanted to feel cared about and was never actually going to kill herself. i stopped all contact after she stopped with the suicide talk. she never once acknowledged the help i gave during that time or what stress it took on my life tryign to help someone overseas cope with that that was why i dropped her as a friend when she got passed it, very one sided.
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