Quote Originally Posted by Late_vamp
instead of him always being in charge , why dont you just go ahead and try the positions you want , tell him that you wanna get your brains ****ed the shit out like THIS, and THAT way , and then you do his doggy style to finish it off , having sex is not about being selfsih and pleasing yourself and thats that , maybe you should let him know that, without going to the whole amazon.com book search .

Thanx Latevamp for your input...I do try and urge him to do different positions and I sometimes do take charge but when my SO tells me there isnt enough time to do different positions it makes it difficult and I feel pressured. He does go to great lengths to make sure I am pleased orally before he cums....he knows I'd be royally pissed off if he didnt!!!! I just miss those days when multiples were plentiful and all I had to do was lie on my back, spread my legs and enjoy...