ANAL (questions for the ladies)

**Ellynn** · 03-09-05, 12:45 PM

Originally Posted by jb5k1

Ok, so isn't it dirty or what. I dunno what to think about the sanitary part of it. No one ever covered that part of the question I first asked lol

Well if you wear a condom(which I highly advise you do) then honestly if there is any sh*t .....(which usually there isn't any) it will be on the outside of the condom. JUST DO NOT SWITCH to her her vagina after trying anal. Get a new condom for that.
If you decide not to wear a condom(which is stupid but some prefer this)...then yeah there may be some on you. Just take a shower afterwards.

Oh yeah and make sure she doesn't have to go before you start doing this.

**jb5k1** · 03-09-05, 12:50 PM

Yea as much as I'd like to put it in her butt (lol I just like the way that sounds when you say it), the whole possibility of the sh*t thing kinda kills it.

**TAVS** · 03-09-05, 12:57 PM

Originally Posted by jb5k1

Yea as much as I'd like to put it in her butt (lol I just like the way that sounds when you say it), the whole possibility of the sh*t thing kinda kills it.

Exactly. Thats the main thing I dont get about homosexual men. They put it in the butt. I just dont get it. Aint nothin going into my butt and my dick aint going in anyone else's butt. I love a nice female butt, but the butt hole is off limits.

**Ellynn** · 03-09-05, 12:58 PM

Originally Posted by jb5k1

Yea as much as I'd like to put it in her butt (lol I just like the way that sounds when you say it), the whole possibility of the sh*t thing kinda kills it.

Honestly there was never a problem when my ex and I did it. Just relax and get into it......worry bout the cleanup afterwards. Its really not that bad.....especially since you have a condom, the lube..etc.

**Ellynn** · 03-09-05, 01:03 PM

I mean try it once. If it turns you off ....then don't do it again. If you decide not to try it....then thats cool too. Its all up to you and her.

**zena** · 04-09-05, 10:22 AM

i've never given it serious thought.. but maybe in the future.. who knows? depends on the mood.

**justonekiss** · 04-09-05, 02:23 PM

I've tried it once, and it was with a guy who didn't know what he was doing. Although somehow it felt better with him than vaginal sex did O_o. I was in pain throughout most of it, though it got really good at the end. Then there was much discomfort for a few days actually, which sorta turned me off from wanting to do it again.

I would like to do it with my boy though, is the discomfort as bad as the first time, everytime? My boy is longer than the other guy, but not as wide - does that matter at all?

**Ellynn** · 04-09-05, 02:33 PM

If your a woman and you try it....DO not and I repeat....DO NOT clench your PC muscles while doing anal! Make sure your Relaxed at ALL TIMES.

I did that once and well.....i was very VERY sore for days. I think I sprained my butt muscles!

**KeepMeAsALie** · 11-09-05, 08:52 PM

Awh, anal. My kinda stuff.

Fingers are good, when my boyfriend and I did it we had KY Jelly.. ugh.. I HATED that stuff. So we just did it in the shower. Water.. it worked fine.

Hurting? Well, if you do it wrong.. you could tear her down there. Also, she should be relaxed.. tell her not to tighten her butt muscles. I thought it would hurt as well.. but it didn't. I was just so surprised on how it felt.. but as far as pain? Nope. None. It felt good. :-)

Some girls like it.. some don't. I hardly meet girls that do.. but I'm a huge freak on it. I love it a lot. Just make sure you two are ready.. it can be scary. I mean.. something will be going into her butt you know? It kinda feels weird at first.. going in and not coming out. Just be gentle with her.. make sure you have a lots of lube. If it looks like more pain for her then pleasure, then ease up.. or stop all together.

lilwing89 · 11-09-05, 09:05 PM

Originally Posted by jb5k1

Ok I've read that some of you have had anal sex and all that. My girlfriend and I watch porn and she always says it's so disgusting, yet if she see's someone get dp'd she goes 'Wow that'd probably feel AMAZING.' I find this funny and I think I could get her to try it.

What is the prep work involved. I'm not tryin to invade a fudge factory. I know fingers and stuff are the way to work up to it and alotta lube.

Also, how long does it take to stop hurting.. meaning a couple times or a couple minutes. I told her that it probably would hurt for the first few times.. if we did.

One last thing, lol. Is all anal play actually pleasurable or does it depend on the girl? I'm sure some people have seen some Jenna Haze porn and she seems to love it. She even said it's more of an intense orgasm.

Sooooo yea. Does it feel good and what are some pre-anal steps?

dude it wont hurt at all if you do it right

you gotta keep her calm and relaxed..if them sphincter muscles are tightened up it will ****ing hurt- believe that!

lilwing89 · 11-09-05, 09:07 PM

btw im a bi guy; not a girl

**clynn** · 15-09-05, 08:00 AM

I tried to try it. The idea turned me on. But we didn't get very far at all. I couldn't allow my boyfriend to go further than maybe a centimeter or two. I realized pretty quick that it just was gonna hurt and not feel good at all.

Its a thing I'll never do.

But fingers are okay....

**FrenchMaid** · 16-09-05, 02:22 AM

Hi make sure you were a condom, some people don't, and they end up with infection, this area in not as clean as the women pussy so, if you don't want to end up with some infections were a condom.

Easyer for the women too so that she doesn't end up with dripping stuff..

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