Goodbyes

Tone · 21-09-05, 01:07 AM

Okay TAVS, don't be careful.

**TAVS** · 21-09-05, 01:11 AM

I'm sorry if I dont understand how I could regret telling someone goodbye and letting them know I will always cherish the 4yrs we had together.

**shh!** · 21-09-05, 01:23 AM

You probably shouldn't listen to me TAVS. I tend to be very private about my most intimate emotions, which is probably not healthy. Ignore my previous post...

**TAVS** · 21-09-05, 01:27 AM

Yea I'm an open book. For the record, although I'm writing this down, I intend to read it only. If she asks for it, sure, she can have it, but I dont plan to automatically hand it to her.

**Jeblina** · 21-09-05, 02:18 AM

I think it's a great idea.....a "script" of sorts....to make sure that you say all the things that you want to say, without forgetting anything. I myself have written "goodbye" letters in the past, only to regret giving them to the person.....but I think as an outline of things you want to say to her, great....but I might not give it to her...keep it for yourself in your "ex box"

**TAVS** · 30-09-05, 02:03 AM

Looks like this is my most recent thread on the topic, so I'll reply here. So it's nearing a week since she left. Took us all of 15 minutes to get the furnature etc out of the house and into her Dad's truck. I decided against reading her the letter for a couple reasons. #1, things were happening so fast, I didnt have time to think plus I didnt know if her dad would walk back in. #2, Jeblina recommended I not break down, I knew reading the letter would lead me to that. Maybe I'll read it to her, or send it down the road. We'll see. I did give her the photo album I put together and a 1-song CD. None of you know the song, but it's of a 'Our time is over, but I'll never forget you' type of song.

I did get a little choked up when she left but I got through it and moved on with my day. Watched about three movies and then went to a party. The rest of the week has been pretty busy. She's crossed my mind from time to time, but I haven't felt sad. I can even listen to sad songs without a lot of reaction. I miss her, sure, but I'm moving on. She write me a very short email Tuesday explaining she was busy, didnt have time to call, but made it home safely. Haven't heard from her since. It bugs be a bit, but not more than a couple seconds. Obviously she's in the honeymoon period of being home so what do I expect right?

So yea, I just wanted everyone to know that things are going well. I'm visiting my Ex, twice removed, this evening. She's moving to Reno next week. We've been friends for the 5 yrs since we broke up. I'll officially have no more Ex girlfriends within driving distance.

**Junsui** · 30-09-05, 02:25 AM

Originally Posted by TAVS

I'll officially have no more Ex girlfriends within driving distance.

That is a great feeling.

**TAVS** · 30-09-05, 02:28 AM

Originally Posted by Junsui

That is a great feeling.

"All My Ex's Live in Texas" Well, that's Mom's song I guess since Dad's down in Lubbock

**Junsui** · 30-09-05, 02:30 AM

lol yes, all of mine are here too, but not in this city.

**TAVS** · 30-09-05, 02:31 AM

Originally Posted by Junsui

lol yes, all of mine are here too, but not in this city.

Maybe I should drive down, visit dad, stop by and get a photo with you just to piss Tone off.

**Junsui** · 30-09-05, 02:32 AM

Sure come on down!

Tone · 30-09-05, 04:13 AM

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**shh!** · 30-09-05, 04:16 AM

aww, poor Tone... Don't worry, sweetie - I'll be true to you (except for at night when my husband comes home)...
:-D

**Junsui** · 30-09-05, 04:28 AM

Originally Posted by Tone

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Awwww he just said a photo, nothing else.

**TAVS** · 30-09-05, 04:37 AM

Originally Posted by Junsui

Awwww he just said a photo, nothing else.

Does your nievity help men take advantage of you? Just kidding.

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