Help Me Out PLEASE...

**Junsui** · 27-09-05, 10:03 PM

Originally Posted by whaywardj

Where it's coming from Junsui, IMHO, is that Bluevette is, at core, a homophobic, pontificating, pompous ass whose truly charming romantic baiting I'd pity any woman's becoming a victim of. And since he's, evidently, removed the post which first prompted me to say that, he also tries to take back what he says and this thread makes even less sense than the absurdity of his remarks already rendered it. But, I could be wrong. Maybe he's not an ass. Maybe he's just so insecure in his self-righteousness that he needs to be accepted at any cost. Even if it means he has to misrepresent himself to acquire affection, or try to sweep under the excuse of a "wrong thread" slips of tongue that might invite criticism. Indicates, to me, a slippery personality in which I'd be highly cautious of placing any of my trust or confidence.

Ahhhh....I would have to agree

**wondering** · 28-09-05, 12:20 AM

thanks whaywardj.. your opinion really helpful.. but i still wish for more opinion..anything got some idea how to make her feel wanted...?

**Asip4u** · 28-09-05, 12:27 AM

Originally Posted by Junsui

Ahhhh....I would have to agree

And I would have to agree with the agreeance of Hayward, the man's, post.

**Asip4u** · 28-09-05, 12:31 AM

Wondering...You are thinking too much. Just be yourself and let things happen naturally. Don't force anything. Ask her to go out for drinks or something she enjoys doing and see where it goes from there.

**whaywardj** · 28-09-05, 12:56 PM

I'd agree with you Asip, but I've never been able to agree with myself on anything.

Wondering: Are you fishing for something you want to hear? You seem to keep asking us what you can do to force a situation, and we keep telling you don't even try. How many more different ways do you think we can say it? Or care to? Enjoy what you have. Leave the rest alone. Being WITH someone doesn't mean being all over them to be with you. If you DON'T give her space to come to you on her own terms, in her own time, you'll never know who she is. At best, you'll know only what you compelled her to be. At worst, you'll know only her resentment. That probably went right over your head. Let me back it up a little bit: Ask yourself this: Do you want her, or do you just want her to want you? How do you know?

**whaywardj** · 28-09-05, 01:08 PM

JUNSUI! Just checked-out your pic in the gallery. You are DEFINITELY the type of woman I go gaa-gaa over...write bad checks and break the law for. Trouble!

But soooo nice.

Just thought I'd share that.

**Asip4u** · 28-09-05, 01:09 PM

Originally Posted by whaywardj

JUNSUI! Just checked-out your pic in the gallery. You are DEFINITELY the type of woman I go gaa-gaa over...write bad checks and break the law for. Trouble!

But soooo nice.

Just thought I'd share that.

I 100% agree with this post.

**Junsui** · 28-09-05, 09:31 PM

lol thank you for the compliment.

**Bluevetteracer** · 29-09-05, 02:37 AM

Originally Posted by whaywardj

Where it's coming from Junsui, IMHO, is that Bluevette is, at core, a homophobic, pontificating, pompous ass whose truly charming romantic baiting I'd pity any woman's becoming a victim of. And since he's, evidently, removed the post which first prompted me to say that, he also tries to take back what he says and this thread makes even less sense than the absurdity of his remarks already rendered it. But, I could be wrong. Maybe he's not an ass. Maybe he's just so insecure in his self-righteousness that he needs to be accepted at any cost. Even if it means he has to misrepresent himself to acquire affection, or try to sweep under the excuse of a "wrong thread" slips of tongue that might invite criticism. Indicates, to me, a slippery personality in which I'd be highly cautious of placing any of my trust or confidence.

Wondering: Do not seek to give any hints to or acquire any confirmations from the object of your affection. Just enjoy to the fullest whatever IS there. If anything more is possible, it will emerge from that on its own, without any help -- or interference -- from you.

Nice try Yoda, but it was a simple mistake in the thread placement, WHICH I changed. I then attempted to read the post in this thread, and was unable to understand due to the poor grammar and sentence construction.

Homophobic, not at all, I am not threatened by gays, or other fringe groups, I have a Christian moral compass which guides my decisions. I HAVE NOT JUDGED or labeled, only offered my opinion and some reason for my ideas.
I have not pressed my faith on anyone, or used it to set judgment, only offer advice on issues.

YOU HAVE MADE THIS PERSONAL, NOT ME!!!!!!!

Your weak character assessment says more about you, then me. I have run no one down here, and you have. Sounds as though you may have the character issues.

**Bluevetteracer** · 29-09-05, 03:20 AM

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IMHO, is that Bluevette is, at core, a homophobic, pontificating, pompous ass

It is always funny to see the "tolerant" more "sophisticated" more "intellectual" minds like this are the first persons to affix labels and name calling.

If people agree with YOU, then they are OK, if not then you must put a label on them in an attempt to discredit them.

In your liberal sense, even if I was homophobic, you should be tolerant of my feeling and my opinion; after all, you are the more tolerant, right?

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