the guilt feeling

[misombra]

aw tone, such a loyal cancerian.

[Asip4u]

Just the fact that he feels very guilty on its own tells you that he went over the line. Something happened that he doesn't think was right and if anybody here can tell me that it's hard because you don't have control over your actions, i'd have to say that's bs. Most guys who are drunk know exactly what they're doing however it's hard for them to resist that temptation.

[misombra]

yeah. i still think you shouldn't say anything. if it was my boyfriend i would be really hurt and as a girlfriend, i would really not want to know. but like i say, i'm pretty liberal about some things.

[Tone]

Yes exactly, Asip.

They know they're doing something they shouldn't, but because of the alcohol it makes it harder to hear the little angel concious-guy sitting on their left shoulder while the devil concious-guy on the right shoulder can be heard clear as day.

[kern]

you dont have to tell me twice about being a fool, its hit me harder than i would of ever thought...its not a nice feeling and i dont wish it upon no one, thx for your response, i know i probably deserve alot more shouting at, but ive probably hit rock bottom already, i told Kim that my ex came round, and she tried it on with me, i said i stopped..i didnt tell her i kissed her, for reasons as 1.i dont want to hurt her feelings, 2.i am too scared i will lose Kim, alot of you probably think i am a coward now, but i HAVE learnt my lesson and now its time for me to get my head straight, and for my first task, stop drinking, this is my second chance, which i dont think i even deserve

[Tone]

As long as you learn from your mistake.

[Junsui]

I wouldn't take being drunk as an excuse either. I've been drunk and had opportunities, but turned them down. It wasn't hard.

[kern]

i know, trust me if i could turn back time, non of this would happen, wouldnt think twice

[Junsui]

Well, you sound like you really regret it. I hope your relationship works out for the best.

[misombra]

I wouldn't take being drunk as an excuse either. I've been drunk and had opportunities, but turned them down. It wasn't hard.

yes but have you done that with your ex-girlfriend?

[Junsui]

yes but have you done that with your ex-girlfriend?

Have I turned ex-boyfriends down? Yes. If I'm going to cheat, it's because I'm going to cheat not because alcohol led me to do it.

[misombra]

oh sorry, thought you were male. lol. i'm just saying, sometimes there's a certain level of comfort in that situation that might be more tempting. plus the alcohol didn't help either. i'm not saying it's right, it's just what happens, you know?

[kern]

thx for your advice people, ive officially been told by the experts! this wont happen again i promise, may see you again in the future, and 110% not for the same reason

[Junsui]

oh sorry, thought you were male. lol. i'm just saying, sometimes there's a certain level of comfort in that situation that might be more tempting. plus the alcohol didn't help either. i'm not saying it's right, it's just what happens, you know?

lol that's ok, I completely understand what you're trying to say. I'm just saying for me personally I would never take that as an excuse from someone I'm dating. I do understand what you're saying though, it is more comfortable with someone you know and have been in a relationship with.

[Tone]

You're a good guy, kern.

Hope everything works out for ya (: