Hi Ellynn
I understand and completely agree with you
It just, kinda makes you feel a little for all the guys out there who suddenly find themselves rejected and ignored for no real reason except for and accident such as experienced by Skavenlord here (Because now the lady partner suddenly feels scared to be with you or even talk to you - you have suddenly become the plague). So this whole sex thing turns into a kind of a trip wire I think "You're damned if you do, you're damned if you don't". Damned if you don't because if you don't you suddenly find yourself described as not very affectionate and you find your partner looking for it somewhere else.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~