I need some imput from some boys AND girls

[Sami09]

I would talk to him if i was you and explain how you feel maybe if you could see him one of the nite either friday or saturday each weekend thats would work. You deserve that much.

Ok, so i have this boyfriend and weve been dating since september of 04. It seems like we now have this issue where he wants his space and i dont mind him having space with his friends. But, he wants every single weekend to spend with his buddies and as awesome as that may sound to him.. i want the weekends too!! He works all week and we still talk and hang out a lot during that time..and thats really great, but theres MORE to do on the weekend and for him to just give his friends that time and not me is unfair i think. So does anyone have any suggestions as to what i should do? i had the idea of maybe giving your friends everyother weekend.. but he didnt like that at all. Ughh!

[Debunkt]

Time with friends is important. So is time together. Obviously your priorities are a little different. If you can't talk about things reasonably and compromise, shits worse than you think. Oh, and some of you people apparently think that women don't want sex that much. Yeah right.

[Rosebud]

I think everyone pretty much covered it here, talk about it with him first and tell him how you feel about it. But keep in mind if you are spending a lot of time together already both of you guys do need your space so don't be to greedy about having him by your side 24-7.

If he doesn't want to work anything out or doesn't listen to what you say there are more problems there then what you see. Also, if he does hang out with his friends then you go out as well and hang out with your friends. I do think if he wants every weekend with his friends maybe you should cut down a little on the time during the week so he''ll see that he does miss you when he's out and will want to spend time with you on the weekends but don't do it in a threatening matter.

[athomas]

Ok, so i have this boyfriend and weve been dating since september of 04. It seems like we now have this issue where he wants his space and i dont mind him having space with his friends. But, he wants every single weekend to spend with his buddies and as awesome as that may sound to him.. i want the weekends too!! He works all week and we still talk and hang out a lot during that time..and thats really great, but theres MORE to do on the weekend and for him to just give his friends that time and not me is unfair i think. So does anyone have any suggestions as to what i should do? i had the idea of maybe giving your friends everyother weekend.. but he didnt like that at all. Ughh!

do something on sundays or something he dosn't need 3 days with his friends. that sounds like a load of b/s to me.

[Junsui]

Sundays? But football is on Sunday!

[Tone]

ahaha I like the way she thinks.

My last g/f would watch football with me.

Well... I'd watch football and she'd nap on the couch with me. ^_^

[Junsui]

lol she would nap

I like watching it, plus it gives me that extra time with him.

[Maleber]

lol she would nap

I like watching it, plus it gives me that extra time with him.

sigh...

if only my situation wasn't so god damn confusing

[lilwing89]

Yes, and 3. ALWAYS use bright pink text.

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