What do men in relationships really think when watching porn?

[Yet another guy]

That you should send them a payment or a donation?

[LOVE_CONFUSED]

I'm sorry I dont follow?

[Yet another guy]

Whoops sorry, i read the situation other way around. (That you had mind blowing sex next morning) What you describe means nothing.

[LOVE_CONFUSED]

Sorry, my bad.

Just wondered if it was normal for a guy to still be into browsing porn sites the morning after a good sex session. Is it true when people class it as a hobby like women shop and read?

[Yet another guy]

I wouldn't say it's a hobby. Well, it's something to pass the time with. Unless he's wanking, in which case it's just for sexual release.

Personally, I don't think I would wank if I had a girl who wanted to **** when ever I want to but people are different and I guess it's normal for some people.

[Yet another guy]

Here's a few good reasons why he would have watched porn the next day:
You tried something new and great and he wanted to look up more of that.
He was looking for new ideas for you guys, why not make mind blowing sex even better?
He was single for a long time and it's a habit.
He was looking for some wanking material for when he needs it.
He didn't have anything better to do.
He wanted to see boobies.

[LOVE_CONFUSED]

Sorry, my bad.

Just wondered if it was normal for a guy to still be into browsing porn sites the morning after a good sex session. Is it true when people class it as a hobby like women shop and read?

[Mathias]

If you have mind blowing sex with your partner and the next morning they have a browse of the usual porn sites - redtube, pornhub etc. What does that mean?

They have a Y chromosome?

[LOVE_CONFUSED]

hi mathias, can you explain alittle please?

[Mathias]

hi mathias, can you explain alittle please?

He's a dude. He's going to watch porn, regardless of what you do.

Just accept it and move on. It doesn't mean a damn thing.

[Wakeup]

He's a dude. He's going to watch porn, regardless of what you do.

Just accept it and move on. It doesn't mean a damn thing.

That sums this long ass thread up nicely.

... The End ....

[FeelingCalledL]

Die thread! Die!! Why don't you die???

[ctr916]

I am glad women have realized that fallacy and are willing to move on.

[ctr916]

Otherwise, I don't believe DannyH got laid enough to put up with all the crapola.

[Katmeow85]

The thread will never die. As long as there is women, men and porn and insecurities there will be this thread. lol.

At least I feel better now.

What I have learnt:
- Lying about watching porn is silly as it makes the other person feel untrusting of you and they feel stupid for believing you. Best to keep it out in the open.
- Explain to her/him it isnt a replacement and why you do it or they will assume horrible things.
- Don't watch it and masterbate over it more than you have sex together.
- Make sure you both let eachother know that you are wanted and appreciated and porn is just for fun alone time.
- Don't do it when you know you might get caught. Like if your gf is in the bath, gets out and comes upstairs and there is noise coming from outside so you don't hear her and she catches you. Then she feels stupid, you feel stupid and no one is happy. Probably best to do it when they are out or away.
- Always find new ways to please eachtother and porn will just be boring in comparison.
- Never blame the person who isnt watching porn for the reason you are watching porn.

Any other things to help in this situation would be much appreciated.