Originally Posted by
xxazurexx
The whole top and bottom is, most women do not like to reject and they go about rejecting in the kindest way possible and so as not to hurt feelings...it's just the way we are and I guess that can lead to confusion for guys. What women should say is 'Look...you repulse me, I would never date you in a million years, leave me the fck alone'!!!! LOL
If a woman is into you and I mean a 'woman' not a girl, she will rarely play 'hard to get'. She will be reciprocative of your advances and you would never have to second guess her interest.
A woman who is half hearted or not sure about you, might not make herself as available to you as the really interested woman would and because she's trying to figure it out....that isn't playing hard to get, although it may be perceived that she is. You would know if there was some kind of interest and because she doesn't always make an excuse to cancel your dates and so continue to pursue her if that is what you want to do.
The woman who is totally not into you, will be unavailable and make excuses time after time and to the guy who doesn't appear to be getting the message. I'm unsure why 'no interest' is so difficult for men to read or for you to accept....because I'd know if a guy wasn't interested in me and I'd move on.
See this is where I agree with you (bolded). Because when a girl goes about it nicely, it confuses a guy. I have a perfect example too.
I knew a girl who I had classes with (College) and we always had good conversations. After a couple of classes I would ask her out for a coffee or something, making it harmless because I wanted to actually get to know her better outside of class before even trying to date her. She would always say she had tennis, or had work, ect. Her bestfriend, friend of mine as well said that she was into me, so I figured these were legit excuses, because she did have tennis some days. One day after chatting to her on FB she changes her status to "What is a nice way to tell someone to F*^% off? Some people jsut dont get it" I thought to myself it might be about me, even though her bestfriend said straight up she was into me. Turns out I was right and she actually didnt want anything to do with me. Women need to straight up tell a guy, "F*&^ OFF, I WILL NEVER HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU!"
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