Guy I think women are bored and want something out of the frame. So guy who have the courage to live his unique reality without society frames could be more interesting than always nice guy.
Guy I think women are bored and want something out of the frame. So guy who have the courage to live his unique reality without society frames could be more interesting than always nice guy.
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will
Being too perfect is definitely a compliment. Who wouldn't want to be perfect? It means you've mastered something, you're really good at it, how can that be a bad thing?
Oh you took intimidating the wrong way, I'm not intimidating meaning being mean or violent, here's an example. It would be me like trying to play one on one against Kobe or Lebron. I would feel intimidated and wouldn't even try. It's that type of intimidating, you're not on the same level.
Being a gold standard is special. Gold is highly sought after and it's rare. It's a good thing to find and very special if you do.
Man those girls dont deserve you. You have to find one than wont thing that you are too perfect but excatly what she deserves. Maybe you should call them bitches sometimes so they wont run away from your perfection.
Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will
If they told you "you are perfect for me" it would be a good thing. But they told you that "you are too perfect". This means you come off as somewhat fake and "inhuman" in the sense that no human is actually perfect. I wouldn't want to be with a guy that I consider to be "too perfect" - if I told that to someone, I wouldn't mean it in a good way. I would want to be with (and am with, but that's not the point) someone that is perfect for me.
Again, I wouldn't want to be with a guy I felt intimidated by (in whichever sense). I like to feel comfortable and free to be myself without feeling inferior in any way, when I'm with my boyfriend.It would be me like trying to play one on one against Kobe or Lebron. I would feel intimidated and wouldn't even try. It's that type of intimidating, you're not on the same level.
Yet, she told you that you would be considered a gold standard by most people. "By most people" means NOT by her. It was just a way of saying that you are not her type.Being a gold standard is special. Gold is highly sought after and it's rare. It's a good thing to find and very special if you do.
The only thing I could suggest is to make sure you are finding someone with the same interests as you. By everything you just mentioned, I can tell you are not my type. I can tell that you are a good guy, but I prefer someone who likes to have a good time, and let loose every once in a while, and yes I mean by having a few drinks and wanting to party every now and again. The reason I want someone who likes to party every once in a while is because I do too. Obviously I won't be partying every weekend until I'm old and gray, but I can definitely see myself always having beer in my fridge, and getting drunk on my birthday (yes, even my 50th) and going out for girl's nights once a month or so, while dad stays at home with the kids. These qualities are probably not appealing to you, which is understable, but you need to make sure you're finding people with things in common with you, and people who have similar interests in mind.
The fact that you are polite and understanding and try to do the right thing, is great, but it needs to be paired with other things that people can relate to!
May the wind always be at your back and the sun upon your face. And may the winds of destiny carry you aloft to dance with the stars
I'm not saying anything about the fact that they are "bad" I'm just saying, many girls fall for them because of their confidence. It usually never lasts because of who hey actually are, but regardless of the fact that they can't KEEP women, they still GET women because they are confident, and everyone knows it!
May the wind always be at your back and the sun upon your face. And may the winds of destiny carry you aloft to dance with the stars
No. I would want a guy whom I feel is my equal and whom I am neither intimidated nor bored by. An equal, a partner. If I don't feel comfortable with a guy, why would I ever want to start a relationship with him - or even just have sex with him? A prerequisite for good sex is good communication and you can't have good communication and intimacy unless you feel comfortable with one another. If I felt uncomfortable with a guy I wouldn't be able to enjoy sex with him, nor anything else.
BTW, that PUA bullshit is bullshit.