GF just broke up with me.

[IndiReloaded]

And this girl I had was a real catch, even my mates tell me, she was very pretty and had the kind of personality I would go for in a girl.

What, a pretty girl with a great personality that includes cheating? Yea, sounds like a real catch.

Come on. You admit you are inexperienced so you put this girl on a pedestal. Everyone here is telling you so.

There are plenty of pretty, fun girls with great personality who WON'T cheat. As you and they get older, you'll be even more impressed with the quality of people you'll meet. Even then, you will find there are other issues that may or may not make you compatible. Its not uncommon for two great people to decide against a match b/c of timing, or some basic incompatibility. This is why its important to relax, have fun but be honest with yourself about who you are with. Pedestals just make things unnecessarily complicated.

Just do the NC thing. Understand you are programmed, biologically, to attach yourself in this way. There's nothing wrong with it, but you need to be smarter than your hormones.

At least you are a guy. Its much worse for girls. You'll find out.

[Raze]

What, a pretty girl with a great personality that includes cheating? Yea, sounds like a real catch.

Come on. You admit you are inexperienced so you put this girl on a pedestal. Everyone here is telling you so.

There are plenty of pretty, fun girls with great personality who WON'T cheat. As you and they get older, you'll be even more impressed with the quality of people you'll meet. Even then, you will find there are other issues that may or may not make you compatible. Its not uncommon for two great people to decide against a match b/c of timing, or some basic incompatibility. This is why its important to relax, have fun but be honest with yourself about who you are with. Pedestals just make things unnecessarily complicated.

Just do the NC thing. Understand you are programmed, biologically, to attach yourself in this way. There's nothing wrong with it, but you need to be smarter than your hormones.

At least you are a guy. Its much worse for girls. You'll find out.

Thank you, Indie. This is what I was trying to say. lol.

[harrier]

Yeah, but you don't know that she cheated. I don't know. Maybe she did, but I haven't got any proof that says she was.

[IndiReloaded]

Sorry Raze, did you already say all that? I didn't read the whole thread, just the OP first post.

[IndiReloaded]

Yeah, but you don't know that she cheated. I don't know. Maybe she did, but I haven't got any proof that says she was.

That doesn't make the rest of what I said wrong. Even if she dumped you b/c she was just plain bored, that's her choice, for her reasons. Don't take it personally. Find someone else.

[Raze]

Sorry Raze, did you already say all that? I didn't read the whole thread, just the OP first post.

No, but you summed it up in one sentence and added stuff I should have added.


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[harrier]

That doesn't make the rest of what I said wrong. Even if she dumped you b/c she was just plain bored, that's her choice, for her reasons. Don't take it personally. Find someone else.

No, that's true. Just don't make accusations if you don't really know all the details.

[Raze]

No, that's true. Just don't make accusations if you don't really know all the details.

The details are that she's not into you, she dumped you, and you don't get it, you fool! What else do we need to know? Man, you have been seriously brainwashed by this girl. What the **** is the matter with you? Where did your balls go? I think she castrated them, because I don't think you have any. Man the **** up. What if she came at you with a knife all of a sudden? Would you be like ohhhh baaabbbyy what we have is sooo goood, I don't care if you cut me to death.

Seriously, if a chick breaks up with you, you just go "man, screw you, you're loss babe, I'm outta here. END OF STORY. Same goes with guys breaking up with girls.

You're better than her. You can do A LOT better, okay?

[harrier]

Yiou don't understand. I can't get another girl! Women ****ing hate me. I'm ugly and have no confidence - not a great combination. That is why I wanted to try and save this relationship.

[Raze]

I knew it! Well, don't get too hard on yourself. It's something you're going to have to work on or else women will continue to walk all over you.

[harrier]

You now must understand why I wanted to save it so much. She was my first girlfriend, I was really happy with her, I haven't been happy for years and years.

At my rate I'll be 40 by the time I find my next girl!

[Raze]

With that attitude, yeah. Stop complaining and get your butt in gear. The clock is ticking.

[IndiReloaded]

Dude, you were the one who mentioned the possibility of her cheating in your post. I'm not making stuff up.

Confidence is gained through experience. Go and ask out lots of girls. Or, another way to think about it: you got her, right? Even if it was for a while. So, you've done it once, you can do it again.

Mbe she dumped you b/c you lack confidence. Think of that?

[harrier]

Yeah, possibly. But like I said I don't know what happened.

And she came to me first. I never asked her out she made the first move.

Although confidence might be an issue with me it was never really an issue in our relationship.

[Raze]

Then you were probably the rebound guy. Damn, that sucks! That's why you got dumped. Rebound guys always get dumped.