Thankyou for all the advice. I know full well that its my fault for getting emotionally attached to this man, I do also know he is unhappy in his relationship as before this all started we have had many conversations about his home life. That does NOT excuse the fact that he is talking to me and I know this. Sometimes I think that he does have genuine feelings for me, and other times I agree with what some of you have said about ' just wanting a bit on the side'
I think after hearing everyone's options I'm not going to talk to him, if his 'feelings' are genuinely true and real then maybe he will leave his partner and after things have died down I will take it from there. I know people think I am a bad person, I don't want to be this person. I don't want these feelings and I know it's my fault, I don't want sympathy. But when there is a part of me that thinks he feels the same it's hard to dismiss it. I do not want to be the girl who split therm up and when I see him I think I'm just going to say this.
I'd like to hear what people think about my decision. Everyone's comments good and bad have actually been quite insightful.