bestfriend vs boyfriend

[1averagejoe]

I've been cheated on once...and I know it would bother me if my gf was hanging out with another guy more than me. So I'm a bit biased on this subject.

I believe there are boundaries to a relationship. Sure you can be friends with the guy, but I feel that your boyfriend should be the one and only guy you share your deep secrets and spend most of your time with. I agree that if you want to spend more time with him, date him not me. It sounds jealous, but I'm thinking logically as well. I mean don't put someone in a situation that's going to make the other feel uncomfortable.

As a guy, if I had a girlfriend, I wouldn't be hanging out with other girls more than my girlfriend.

Ohh well...that's just me.

[genesys4]

How does she meet with her bestfriend and for what reasons? What do they do together? How did they meet and how long have they been best friends? How do you know him?

she doesn't meet with her bestfriend. it's just he calls her, not too often though and sometimes IM'ing with her.
only thing is she does that to him more than on me, plus the contents don't seem to be on a romantic level, it's just like catching up on certain things, it seems...