surfhb, I'm just about done arguing with you about this, but I wanted to add that when you say things like, "She should have never put herself in that position if she wasnt willing to go all the way. If you dont want to have sex with a guy, dont grab his dick", you ARE essentially saying "its OK to rape you"

You're putting the blame on the rape victim by insinuating that she was asking for it and therefore deserves to be raped.

Yeah...youre right....sorry for the miscommunications on my part