Quote Originally Posted by shyguy0806 View Post
So if a guy wants to confess to a girl, should a relationship start with friendship first or can it jump straight into bf gf kinda thing??
Have you ever heard of dating?

Don't confess anything right now, because you're going to sound deranged if you tell a stranger that you have feelings for her. Because that is insane. And also extremely shallow. You didn't say, but obviously she is hot.

It doesn't matter how shy you are, you're going to need to start with some small talk. You can't just walk up and tell a woman that you want to be her friend or lover or whatever when you don't even know her name.

So, small talk. Introduce yourself, and ask her name. Tell her that you've seen her around. As I mentioned in your other thread, ask her for directions or help with some minor matter, it will make her slightly more friendly towards you unless she is a jerk. (Which is possible, since you don't even know her.) Then ask her out, like Vertical Sky mentioned, to something non-threatening, like coffee or lunch, to re-pay her for her help. If that goes well, after coffee/lunch, ask her out on a more serious date, like dinner and a movie.

The whole point of dating is to find out if there is some potential, some chemistry. Don't develop some huge crush on a total stranger, approach her as soon as you reasonably can and start with the small talk. Then take it from there. Hanging back and building up a big fantasy in your mind is a huge waste of time and will lead to major disappointment.

You have mentioned that there are always guys around. That is a problem. Obviously she is very popular, and your odds are probably bad. Either you're going to need to be extra brave to ask her out in front of these guys, or you're going to need to come up with a creative way to talk to her alone. Maybe you could start a separate thread focused on just that part of the situation, or maybe people posting in this thread can help.