Messed up getting worse. Benefactor with sugar baby

[GirLee4Ever]

" ..To check on whether she is actively pursuing new sexual interactions for money, I have actually posted sham ads online which she has answered thinking they were legitimate with great zeal and enthusiasm."

aaaahhhhhhhhaaaaa.NO SHIT !!????
I wonder why she did that?? Who would answer some strangers ad for sex with great zeal and enthusiasm...MAYBE A WHORE!!

You sir, sound ridiculous and are an idiot as stated by others.
If you find my reply offense, you should.
I find your entire post offense. Here is what you sound like to me:
"Hi,I'm a married professional man and I am having an extramarital affair with a whore who is whoring around with a bunch of other old, pathetic dirty bastards but I continue to give her money because I have no respect for myself or the sanctity of marriage and I would rather not get close to my wife but instead waste my time, money and energy on a piece of trash whore who enthusiastically and zelously answers all my fake stalker adds for more whore time..how do I deal with this?"

I bet you also stalk the prostitue on company time! What a tard. I cannot show anything but disdain and disrespect for your post.

[telluride11]

Well, thanks to all who have written so far even those who have been brutally scathing in their comments to me. No I am not a whoremonger and don't have any experience with hookers. This particular relationship was not with a whore but with someone I took to be a young woman who was thought to be a "sugar-baby" linked to me in an exclusive relationship. Unfortunately, I didn't have the insight, experience, or understanding to realize what I was getting into and after the best sex of my life with someone who was so convincing, amazingly attractive and attentive, I was seduced into both a physical and emotional involvement. True, the sex was in essence a playing out of a jerk off fantasy with a live woman who was willing and skilled, but I do not have the ability to separate out sex from making "love" and that is what ultimatel happened. There are moralists on this board who feel that any extra marital philandering is wrong and while I appreciate this position, my dilemma is not with the guilt of cheating but with the consequences of developing unexpected emotional involvement with what was supposed to be a casual sexual interlude

[rackandpinion]

You are just lovestruck out of control and need to be mess up physically or somebody to just shake you out of this. There is no possible way in a zillion years that someone this hot is going to be able to be dealt with as just a casual ****. You couldn't handle it. If she was a bit plainer you would have been much better off but now that you have the best sex of your life with woman who has been redefined as your "ideal" you are hanging on his almost as salvation. Realize that it is only sex with a stranger which is glorified masturbation, go back and do her in ever possible orifice keeping in mind that there is only physical passion which guys need and you have been given an unbelievable gift.. Not only do you have the money to do this but you have the goods given to you on a silver platter. Don't **** it up. Do her as much as you can and split your whimp ass mind from the act. Otherwise you are, in a word, a miserable faggot.

[Gigabitch]

My husband said you should have sex with more professionals to get yourself a clearer understanding of what your relationship is with her.

He also said you had better not bring any cooties home to your wife.

[GirLee4Ever]

Your posts are unbelievable. You make me laugh and get angry, mainly laugh. You cannot be a real person. This is THE DUMBEST shit I have EVER heard.

I hope your wife finds out and leaves your ass. You hate her anyway.

You call her old and fat yet I seriously doubt you are some fine, 20 yrs old young Antonio Banderas or Brad Pitt look alike.

You are not intelligent, if you were you never would have made such a stupid post.
"I do not want to engage in an extramarital affair." Guess what you are doing? Engaging in an extra-marital affair.
"I have a sugar baby". You sound ridiculous. You have a money sucking hooker you tard.

You call yourself innocent and naive..ARE YOU KIDDING?
ou're a grown ass old man fully aware of what you are doing!
Innocent and naive..how dare you even pick those words to describe yourself?
Sounds like you do not even know what they mean because those are the last words anyone would use to characterize someone who cheats and pays for whore sex. Go look them up and use them appropriately next time.

You think this HOOKER likes you? She could give two shits if you die tomorrow.
All she will miss is your money but sounds like she has enough johns that she would be ok.

So now you are in love with a hooker. Poor baby. Woe is you. Someone call the Waaaambulance!!

The best advise is leave your wife who you hate.
Tell your kids about your new "love" and see how much support they show you. Try "sponsoring" some other "sugarbabies" ..bet your dumb ass will think they like you too and you are special to them and you will be in "love" with the other hookers too cause you are too dillusional to separate love, life and reality from the fakery of hookers.

You are crazy..even stalking this hooker with fake ads.

I wonder what you do for a living? I hope you are not some CEO of some company we bailed out!!
Whatever you do I am sure you are wasting company time stalking, calling, texting and being completely obsessed with this whore.

You are a retard. Go wash your mouth out with a revolver loser.

[rackandpinion]

Girlee4ever is funny but doesn't have a half a clue as o the manipulation that a mans mind is subjected to when it comes to sex. One might think that a whore is exclusively the victim of all the terrible societal injustices that turn her into that. I am not arguing, but whores can dominate, can become addictive, can alter a mans mind and create continual craving, lust, desire, and in essence a warped form of love. A skillful escort or whatever you want to call it, has far more smarts about turning on a guy and reading his every desire, horniness, insecurity, fake machismo and can by repeated psychological manipulation create a dependent puppet. That seems to be what happened to telluride who didn't enter this relationship with a clue as to how he would be played. Now he shells out money in exchange no doubt for incredibly blow jobs, and who knows what and is being micromanaged through his obvious addiction to the pleasure by this very shrewd woman who, as a consequence of probable sex abuse as a child has a sinister agenda of revenge, acting out, psychosexual role play and a whole textbook of mechanisms to establish her control. I feel sorry for telluride and the literally millions of men over the years that this has happened to. Its totally understandable and Girlee4ever doesn't have a clue coming from her vantage point.

[IndiReloaded]

LOL. Waaaambulance is pretty funny, tho.

[Gigabitch]

... this very shrewd woman who, as a consequence of probable sex abuse as a child has a sinister agenda of revenge, acting out, psychosexual role play and a whole textbook of mechanisms to establish her control.

Or she's just really good at making a fast buck on her back. This doesn't make her evil. It just makes her a business woman.

[rackandpinion]

For many reasons, this is true, but the most important one is that, true to the expression "as genuine as a whore's kiss", if one falls for the fake affection, fake emotion, fake warmth, fake everything than one is indeed fake themselves and in reckoning with that, one is left hollow and empty. Just the way the whore feels towards her client. Not to say, that the physical sensations of enacting everything you always wanted to do to a woman aren't great, but, they are just that, physical sensations just like a massage is a physical sensation. Never, ever believe in the phoniness. Of course it is better that the whore acts nice and gracious just like a hostess at a restaurant. But, she couldn't give even a corn kernal off a turd for any client if they suddenly came down with leukemia. Even in long standing whore-john relationships, the rule is the same - keep the emotions out of it. Period. Telluride is learning the hard way but he'll get through or his wife will straighten his ass out.

[loudrims_inc]

what about getting a "mail order bride"? lol

[Gigabitch]

I've known a few of them. They don't love their husbands.

[SS Gal]

Hey telluride, did you ever consider counseling with your wife? Maybe let her know that you were to the point of doing something like this? Although I do believe that a woman should take care of her man and his needs, both emotionally and physically, I'm sure there are two sides to your relationship story. In any case, if your marriage, reputation or wife mean anything at all to you, I'd say you better accept this girl for what she is and what she does and realize that there will be no happy ending with her. Period. She is with you because of your money and nothing else. Face the truth, as hard as it may be and stop being unfaithful to your wife. How would you like it if she did this to you?

[loudrims_inc]

wtf is a "sugar baby"??????? i have never ever ever heard that term before...we usually call them whores, escorts, prostitutes, call girls, etc...

[telluride11]

A married guy develops a relationship with a younger woman. In order to have a mutually easy, satisfactory, discrete, no strings attached relationship, there are certain understood ground rules. The guy helps out the younger girl financially, she provides eroticism, and sensuality that may have grown stale in marriage. It usually works when the chemistry is right. However, in my case, I fell for the girl very hard as she was about as hot, perfect, passionate, congenial, and likable as could be. She knew how to "stroke" my ego and not only gave me the best sex of my life but acted like a girlfriend. Thus I was drawn into her and became upset and jealous of her life out of our once a week meetings. As it turns out she has one other guy that she has similar arrangements with which I didn't know about when I met her and he actually gives her more than twice as much as I do. So she is netting about 6000.00 a month for 8 nites of passion. Hmm not bad, but I can't quit her, can't fall out of love with her yet and realize that women definitely have the upper hand over men in relationships like this. guys are like sheep and follow the hottest most available female.

[Gigabitch]

I thought one of those sugar baby ground rules was that she was supposed to be YOURS. You're not supposed to share her with other old rich dudes.

My mom worked with and befriended a "kept" woman for years. Her sugar daddy bought her a condo, took her on vacations and spoiled the shit out of her. In exchange, she was to be available and at his beck and call, and she was not to have boyfriends. He didn't care if she dated, he just didn't want guys over at her place or getting in the way if he had a couple of hours free from his wife.

She eventually ended it, since being taken care of wasn't worth her freedom any more. No hard feelings on either side.

What you have, telluride, is NOT the situation I've described.