Originally Posted by
heartbroke
i am in a very very complicated situation. i've found out that my gf of almost 3 yrs had a fling with this guy, her colleague. i only found out when they ended this thru checking the chat log. the guy is attached, but my girl lied that she had been cheated by her bf, that's me. she is...or rather was a very obedient, shy girl. this is the first time this thing happened. she told me that at the point of time, she was being "playful" and she still loves me. they started to get closer, holding hands, kissing for abt 3-4 days before they decided that it is very wrong, and ended it.
girls, pls tell me - what shd be my decision? of coz i still love her if not i won't be posting this. i decide that wateva u girls advised me will be my last decision. thanks.
dude,im not a girl but ive been thru this,i would say forgive her but forget about her and find another,if you can handle her holding hands and kissing other guys then fine,give it another shot,but if it hurts you,i think that staying with her will bring about more pain.
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