My GF and I LOVE the fact that we are so externally different. I was a little worried at first because society puts so much pressure on what a couple should appear like.
But I am convinced that our differences make us super compatible ironically. She is white, I am asian. She is punk-rock-tattooed science teacher, I am clean-shaven, un-inked, nerdy accountant.
She is marathon athlete and ex-fitness trainer, while I have never even played any sports (im fairly fit though). When we stroll around busy places, we definitely turn heads.
Asian women tend to stare more, but I gotta say the asian dudes stare too. White people tend to stare less for some reason. She is very good-looking...and I'm not bad either (as I have been told).
We match. But more importantly, we have the same ethical standards, and commitment minds. We both put our children first, and we respect each others' opinions.
We are very sexually compatible, and we are both weird in our own ways. The color of our skin is the least relevant item in our relationship. But for some reason, she loves the fact
that I'm chinese, and I actually love her whiteness..... even though neither of us has any color preferences previously.