Need advice to how to approach a girl for shy guys

[shyguy0806]

Looks like you are going to have to go for plan B, and that would be to just randomly ask girls out. Start with ones that don't intimidate you too much. Remember just because you take someone out doesn't mean you have to commit to being their BF, it's just casual dating.

How do you suppose I do that when I do not have many friends that are girls.

[smackie9]

Ever just go out with a buddy to do just that.....hit on girls? Maybe find a friend that can boost your confidence and be your wing man.

[shyguy0806]

Not really. I never have tried hitting on girls at all.

[smackie9]

Well if you had the support of a buddy with ya you will feel more confident having him start the convo with the girl. You have to learn to no worry so much about what they think. Lots of guys recommend lowering your expectations and start off with ones you don't really find attractive, develop some confidence and work your way up.

[shyguy0806]

hmm... this seems its going to be tough to find a buddy to be my right wing man

[smackie9]

hmm... this seems its going to be tough to find a buddy to be my right wing man

So you are saying you have buddies that are like you?

[shyguy0806]

So you are saying you have buddies that are like you?

pretty much

[smackie9]

So maybe this can be an opportunity to get them together and go out and challenge each other to talk to girls.

[shyguy0806]

So maybe this can be an opportunity to get them together and go out and challenge each other to talk to girls.

they probably would rather play games all day long instead of doing something like this...

[smackie9]

Doesn't anyone have hormones? Or is it just plain fear? I think you should look at getting some new friends.

[shyguy0806]

Doesn't anyone have hormones? Or is it just plain fear? I think you should look at getting some new friends.

well i know i have hormones. i guess it is the fear of reject and failure. probably....... =/

[smackie9]

Well as they say you never know until you try. Have you even had any interest in meeting someone through an online game?

[shyguy0806]

Huh? Meeting someone through an online game? I mean random strangers playing rpg together but never really met them in real person before.

[smackie9]

My GF met her BF playing WOW....they have been living together for the last year.

[the_robot]

My GF met her BF playing WOW....they have been living together for the last year.

Funny, a friend of mine met his gf on WOW too... he's a special case though.