He totally just reassured what you said about remaining friends/colleagues so he could steal a kiss from your lips.
He totally just reassured what you said about remaining friends/colleagues so he could steal a kiss from your lips.
So then what's the problem?
Well, im not sure!!! lol
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
So he doesn't have any pull and he is your Boss?
Even a supervisor can have an effect on your employment.
They start the paper trail that leads to the pink slips, yes?
Or is he more like a shift manager?
Its hard to explain unless you understand my work..he is basically a veterinary surgeon, im a reproduction analyst, which basically means alot of my work goes through him, any decision he makes over rides mine and i work under him, but he doesnt deal with anything at all to do with staff/payroll/management etc, that is totally seperate.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
I hope you realize that this is going to end really, really badly qwerty, no matter how much you try to convince yourself it won't. You've already shown that you are unable to control the situation and it will all be going downhill from here.
Take it from someone who once upon a time flirted with (and was flirted with) a girl (not a boss) from a different department at work. Two years later things are still awkward. Even though she works on a different floor.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
Thats the most annoying thing....I know you are right mish(along with others saying the same) but I still want to 'see how it goes' with him for some reason.
I dont think it helps, my friends IRL are encouraging me. :S
Im not usually so indecisive!!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
I think at this point, I would hit you with a stick if I found you Qwerty. Said stick would measure no less than this wide:
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You are playing with fire and you know it.
"What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power.
You fear your own anger, the drive to do great and terrible things."
The Warmonger
can it have a nail in it.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Don't you actually know whether someone is your boss or not?
Q - you're starting to sound like the ditz that Neo described. You have a child to think of. If you screw up your work situation its not just you that will suffer. Dating at work is always frowned upon. If not by this guy, then someone else at your work will.
Especially given your recent issues with this stalker guy, this could easily make it seem you were somehow leading him on. Does it occur to you that dating someone else from your work could make you look like the company whore?
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
IndiReloaded says:
"I have never done anything stupid like this. I would never put a man over my career. So your implication its all women is wrong, Neo."
an exception to the rule does not negate the norm.
IndiReloaded says:
"Q - you're starting to sound like the ditz that Neo described. You have a child to think of. If you screw up your work situation its not just you that will suffer. Dating at work is always frowned upon. If not by this guy, then someone else at your work will."
let her learn on her own. Most of the members here already spent 3 pages explaining why it's a bad reason to date your boss. At this point, if she is still undecided, then she's going to do whatever she wants regardless of what you say.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.