I am not sure if it is a fetish, but Water and being wet get me going. My man fresh out of the shower =
I am not sure if it is a fetish, but Water and being wet get me going. My man fresh out of the shower =
I think that a transvestite can also be a repressed homosexual, just like a homophobe can also be a repressed homosexual.
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
Well, if that's the case then he's still repressed 'cause he's been dating women since he and I broke up 5 years ago. I'm not saying it's not possible that he's repressed, I'm just saying I think it's unlikely. I know him as an individual better than anyone here so it really doesn't matter to me anyway. He and I had a good relationship for the time we were together. Bit rocky at times, but he's a great person. I just hope he's happy.
Eddie Izzard is a straight transvestite. Out of all the intricacies of our world, why is it so hard to believe that an individual can be any combination of things? It's rather narrow-minded to shut down ideas simply because you don't understand what might seem logical to someone else.
A good example are men that experiment with other men. You wouldn't believe how many of my gay male friends tell me they've messed around with tons of seemingly straight guys. Does it mean those guys are gay? Maybe, maybe not. I remember when I first felt an attraction to a female. I was very young and afraid of what it meant. Laughing at issues like this is very frustrating for those who do feel confused about their sexuality.
Issues aren't nearly as black and white as they used to be.
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'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.
After years of thinking I was into one thing or another I have determined that my fetish is experimentation. I have tried a lot of things once, thoroughly enjoyed them that time and never been interested again. It's very odd and was very confusing for hubby for the first couple of years. It can be very frustrating for him when he really enjoys something and I never want to do it again. Every now and then I will suggest something that will freak him out (my auto-masochism phase freaked him out, especially when I spoke of wanting to be bled. Luckily I found a middle ground that satisfied the pain urge for a while... then I got my first tattoo. Guess what? No more auto-masochism. Go figure. ) but most of the time he is open to suggestion. It doesn't help that we have a book called The Encyclopaedia of Unusual Sex Practices. Brilliant book but can be both shocking and inspirational. :p
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.
Okay, I see what you're saying. I was referring to homosexuality by its denotation: sexual desire or behavior directed toward a person or persons of one's own sex. In my mind, this definition of "sex" was explicitly anatomically based. I see now that you're referring to the more abstract concept of a person's gender identity. Like some men who say they feel like a woman trapped in a man's body.
Long nipples are a huge turn on to me. I would say that both big and long are, but I have seen a few pictures where bigger was definitely NOT better (half of the woman's breast was nipple :S ). Give me a nipple the size of a finger tip and I'll give it the tongue massage of a lifetime!
...one can be sure of nothing until it has already happened...
haha you can probably tell by the name :p but theres nothing i love more than a womans feet, definantly my fetish.
Ok since it seems so popular, now I feel like opening up and revealing my deepest fantasy. Here goes...
I find the idea incredibly arousing that a girl sits on my face. Not just hover there a bit, but with her full weight and properly ****s my nose and tongue. Smothering me, then bouncing up and down to let me breathe.
Possibly combined with some bondage and light spanking.
A bit submissive, I admit. People seem to react shocked or at least surprised when I tell them about it. I just think it's arousing and fun
I'd think so too considering that it's fairly easy to find such porn but everybody are still so shocked to hear of it.
nothing i love more than a womans feet, so sexy.. definantly my fetish
lol. Yeah, there's something weird about pancake nipples, especially when they are that big. Hubby and I spent an evening looking at a site dedicated to big nippled women and I was once again shocked by the variety of boobs out there and the variety of nipples that can top them. Helped me feel quite bit better about me actually. :p
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.