Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
If you decide to try to stay in this marriage, it will be hard to undo all the damage that is done by flapping your lips about her indiscretion, and she may end up not thinking it is worth trying to stay when she has to not only try to regain YOUR esteem, but also everyone else she knows.
^ Good advice.
My understanding of Will Harley's (Marriage Builders) advice about full disclosure is provided to the *offended spouse*, not that you publicly drag them through the mud.
Last edited by IndiReloaded; 15-08-10 at 02:29 AM.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh