Hmmm.. not the reactions I was expecting.
Gigabitch, my girl is not pure. Why should I be? If I bone a bunch of girls, why wouldn't sex become more physical for me? How would it not help me overcome the hurt that I feel about my girl having deep emotional sex with 10 other guys?
xxazurexx, it doesn't matter to me when it happened but THAT it happened. She has an experience that I don't have, that I now WANT to have. Agreed that I am a bit 'touched in the head', but I feel like this could be a real solution to my problems. Do you suggest that I just break up with her (because I am small-minded and can't get over this) and then go **** a bunch of girls? I WANT MINE DAMNIT. If she really loves me she would consider doing this for me, despite my obvious fault in not being able to deal with this, right? I want to go sew my wild oats like she has, I WANT TO MAKE A NEW OPPORTUNITY FOR MYSELF. I really love this girl and made commitments to her based on my prior (if delusional) understanding of our relationship but the fact remains that I'm not ready to be tied down, especially with what I see as a gross inequality.