Originally Posted by
Hunny
Just asking out of curiosity as my friends and I were discussing this today. When you're dating someone new, how long do you wait before you have sex? An hour, a week, a month, wait until marriage? Or do you have sex before you even start dating?
Seems to settle right around the 2 - 4 month mark in most cases... But basically whenever I feel the chemistry is right, they have the qualities I want, and I feel that I love them and they they love me. It's probably not the best way to go about it... but sometimes you have to take a chance.
Also... if the guy (or girl) doesn't want to get tested and I can't convince them they should... I tend to not stick around because we obviously can't see eye to eye.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen