He Gave My Flowers Away!

[Cutiepiie]

No. You've only gone out with him 3 times. Either you would want to see him again or not. It's not like there's a lot invested in the "relationship". I'd guess no, you don't if it takes this long to consider.

Its not that simple!

I havent had much invested.. I am very picky with who I date and when I find someone I know if I want to be with him or not..but yet this one confuses me and sends me mixed signals.

Yes is only been 3 dates but countless times of hanging out with him and friends which I dont consider dates but I know him well enough.

He confuses me and gives me mixed signals. Tells me he likes me alot .. has romantic dinners and such but he doesnt want a serious relationship. Then I tell him ok I will date other people and he gets pissed off.

But I truely like him alot and would love to give him my heart.

[Lloyd95]

But I truely like him alot and would love to give him my heart.

yet you won't give him a simple "yes" when he asked you out again?
I really don't get women.

[Tone]

LoL seriously wtf... you won't go out on another date but you "truely like him and would love to give him your heart"

What kind of bullshit is....... (Tone be good!)

*regains composure*

It's not like he's asking to marry...

[Cutiepiie]

and you guys will never know

[Junsui]

He sounds confusing too, saying he doesn't want a serious relationship, but then getting mad at her when she talks about seeing other guys. I agree it's just a date, but that would make me cautious as well.

[Tone]

Yeah but he's not here for us to yell at him, so we can only take it out on Cutiepiie

;P

[Lloyd95]

Girls, here's a tip: If a guy tells you he likes you, he does. We don't lie about that stuff.

Also, he's probably a little insecure, as most guys are, so he says he's not into a serious relationship to cover himself if she's not into him. Thus, why he gets bent out of shape when she wants to see other people. It's not right, it's just the way it is.

All I'm saying if she likes him, she should go out with him; unless he's some sort of freak or something (insert RSK joke here )

[Junsui]

He probably is a freak

[Lloyd95]

He probably is a freak

Who, RK? J/K.
I think he sounds kinda normal, but what do I know.

[Junsui]

I was kidding! I have no clue lol.

[clynn]

Yah, go out with him if you like him.

How can anyone know if you want a serious relationship, seriously...after only 3 dates?

Cripes.

[Lloyd95]

How can anyone know if you want a serious relationship, seriously...after only 3 dates?

Noooo, don't you see, they hung out as friends first!

[clynn]

Noooo, don't you see, they hung out as friends first!

Oh. Right.

For crying out loud, where's the ring then?


..... actually, sorry to tease.

I have a theory hope I can articulate it clearly --- I think that women want the verbal commitment before they're willing to proceed. And men need to see action before they're willing to commit.

He may be thinking, how can I be serious with someone who isn't willing to go out and spend time getting to know me?

Meanwhile, you're thinking...how can I go out with someone who isn't willing to say he is serious about me?

[Lloyd95]

Oh. Right.

For crying out loud, where's the ring then?

After date #5.