I don't necessarily connect working out to being mentally fit. It may work for some people but I've been there and done that. I have no issues with my body and mentally I think I'm balanced well enough. Aside from the original situation I posted I am usually on the mark with my morals and ethics. Having no outlets of communication here in the UK I needed a sounding board, the same motivator as setting up a psychiatrist appointment. The medication with the antidepressant, I wasnt told it had that quality. It's a combination of sleeping meds and antidep meds. I was only told of the sleeping and found out, ironically from a doctor here in the UK, it had the antidep side. So my reason for a psyche appt is to get off that medication and created a more personal sounding board then forums.
anything at this point
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
Sorry de, didn't see this part of the post.
I do work in digital marketing. I have considered taking jobs doing work client side and agency side and I am open to either. My skills do reach into other areas that I can do- almost anything with a computer. I made the mistake of taking a job once before that wasn't right for me and I regretted it for a long time. I've slashed my wages to nil just to find work I enjoy doing. I learned a long time ago being happy working, especially when so much of your self esteem and pride- as a man, come from it is the smarter road to take towards better mental well being.
Ummm yes, as I said it's a temporary postion to get your ass in the working gear. To get you to bed earlier you know all those things you said would be fixed when you're employed. You will still have time to look for your 'real' job, but you'll have a little money to spare how is that NOT in the best interests of your family. I think it's awefully selfish of you to say if I can't do my dream job I'm not working at all.
And I completely agree that you should enjoy and love your job, but when you have no job, it's ruining your relationship and you're broke I think it's time to suck it up.
Completely baffled by a backward indication
That an inspired word will come across your tongue
Hands moving upward to propel the situation
Have simply halted
And now the conversation's done
I am the EgGmAn
You should do everything around the house. If your not working there is no reason the house shouldn't be clean and you prepare the meals. Even get up with her daughter to see her off to school and I'm sure your gf wouldn't mind you getting up and making her some coffee and even a light breakfast. When I was outta work for a time my gf came home from her factory job everyday to find that done and a hot bath ready for her.
Completely baffled by a backward indication
That an inspired word will come across your tongue
Hands moving upward to propel the situation
Have simply halted
And now the conversation's done
I am the EgGmAn
In retrospect I should have been more clear on my financial situation. I guess broke was more of a feeling then a reality. I'm still able to buy dinner/pizza delivery, Nintendo Wii games for the little one, pay my car insurance and credit card debts monthly, etc.
I do see your point regarding having more money and getting back to working to get back into the habits that cured this problem I'm having in my relationship.
I'm glad I've made this post and thank you for your insight, everyone, it would appear having more sex and getting a job is the answer to the problem.
LOL, ^ you came to that conclusion yourself my friend.
ughm, i suggest growing up as well.
mo'Dajvo' pa'wIjDaq je narghpu' He'So'bogh SajlIj
I agree with you and obviously you don't know all the details of our relationship and family life but as far as handling "daily chores," we have a system that works for us and we all have our role to play and no one has complained about the situation in the least at least as far as those "daily chores" go.