I'm not arguing with you. Very true!
I'm not arguing with you. Very true!
I recommend that in any future relationships, you explicitly ASK the woman to be exclusive. Sure, that doesn't guarantee that she will be faithful, but it would avoid the awkward position of being a cuddle-buddy in reality, when you THOUGHT you were boyfriend.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I agree, as usual communication is key.
It was not until near the end I realised I wasn't the only one. I then asked the question on a text. I received no response to that text.
In you're opinion exactly when should I of asked? In the first few dates, a week, a month? The problem is I could meet with someone who is honest, but I am worried about appearing to be a man who is insecure and not trusting.
Last edited by MrKnobby; 13-02-14 at 12:36 AM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Think I've always notice it was the first question we all asked if someone else was invovled. That's just a normal question when you first meet. Whether they're honest or not is another story. But that is why it's a always a golden rule to take your time and not rush into things blindly.
Nothing wrong with just casually bringing it up in a converstation like "My goal is to find someone that is interested in a serious relationship, how about you?" or "I'm tired of the dating rat race, I think I'm ready to settle down." or "To be honest I am looking for something more than casual......"
Dude, you are her gay friend....
Update for Smackey and friends.......
I was feeling a little immature today, after receiving another text message I loaded a clip of text messages and opened fire. She got a good telling off.
I told her that I have no intention to be fiends with a liar, I have no interest in love triangles, I will never be a cuddle bitch and finally the classic.....
"Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me" ......text.
She replied and told me that she has a BF, she doesn't want to be my friend and she didn't know who I was referring too when I mentioned her ex husbands name.
I wonder if her present boyfriend knew she was contacting me? Who cares, I am pretty sure I upset her. Being a man in my opinion is not letting anyone walk all over you. these kind of people need to be told.
Thank you forum. This concludes the thread.
Last edited by MrKnobby; 24-02-14 at 07:45 AM.