Originally Posted by
MikeNessMonster
Well now the situation is escalating ... he texted me AGAIN saying "Jazon Mraz, I'm yours!!!" and I finally got the balls to up front tell him "Please don't contact me in ANY WAY." and he sends back "
" and I said "If you continue to try to contact me I will involve the police. If you contact me again in any way that is harassment." and so he sends me back "Oh youre a heartless bitch blah blah" ... So I'm waiting to see if he does so once more and if he does, I'm going to contact the authorities. People who are willing to still trying to contact another person even after they have mentioned the police are just trouble and don't know how to step back. I can't be messing with my safety at this point.
Stop. Contacting. Him. Is it our online accent or what that makes this hard to understand?
If he is a stalker, every time you respond to him just feeds his monster. Even if you are rejecting him, its still attention. You've told him clearly you don't want him contacting you. Now you have to learn to ignore him until he goes away. He will, but not if he can see he's getting to you.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh