i dont see the problem
either you want to do things with and/or for her
or you dont
i dont get what the problem is?
If you dont want her to contact you in any way then tell her and block her and ignore the **** out of her - or file a harassmant order if she keeps stalking you
If you do want her (pun intended)
then do it and live with the consequenses
i dont get what this is all about. But i didnt read the whole thing properly - so maybe ive missed something.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.