Originally Posted by
phil007
well, we didnt meet, she said she would text me so i was waiting for her, but she just went down and waited for me in the area i smoke in (instead of her usual place, her front of building, mine at rear) my work collegue was out there and she said she was waiting for me when he got back. This is what i mean about strange behaviour and this time its me who effectivly stood her up.
Anyway we met again when she was leaving work, she is on holiday next week for 1 week, to cut a long story short she basically said her friends are gone next weekend and do i want to go out for a drink.
I said to her only if she wants to 100% and not to f**k me around and she said 100% she wants to.
I will take it or leave it in my mind. I have been messed about. But i have unfinished bussiness here.
Your only unfinished business is you getting stood up again this weekend and posting here asking "why? why did she do it again?". We will reply that you're allowing her to treat you like this, etc etc and you'll come back with "Yes yes, I will be more strong with her and tell her to take it or leave it." She'll make plans with you, and we'll repeat the cycle.
There is no more advice for you in this thread, everyone here is in agreeance that you're being kicked around and allowing it to happen. Good luck to you.
"All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley