Chisel, as in wear you down, pick on you, whittle you down!
Chisel, as in wear you down, pick on you, whittle you down!
HEY I'M A PILOT
HEY LLOYD, I'm a pilot
Neo to the rescue:
You have every right to feel the way you do. Don't listen to the people calling you a hypocrite. I guess they didn't bother to read that the women you slept with were in the context of a relationship and they were all single. No one-night stands, no cheating, and no flings with co-workers. Your gf's sexual past leaves much to be desired. If I were you, I would probably feel insecure too. You need to ask yourself how much you love her. If you can tolerate the image of her getting pounded in the bathroom stall in a club by a stranger, then props to you. Otherwise, f*ck her a few more times and ditch her. Your life will be so much easier. Girls like her don't deserve guys like you.
Oh, gad. You don't trust her? You don't need to be with her. And she CERTAINLY doesn't need to be with you. Where's the confusion over this?
::somebody hold me back before I go off on a diatribe on this guy...wait! i did that already. what comes after "diatribe"?::
Last edited by whaywardj; 11-11-05 at 10:05 AM.
Speak less. Say more.
Originally Posted by whaywardj
Pontificate?????
HEY I'M A PILOT
HEY LLOYD, I'm a pilot
Hi, Okay, this is what I think.
I am a 24 year old girl, and I've slept with hmm...maybe 15 people, to be truthfull, I could count, but what's the point. It depends on how you view sex. You don't truly know this girl you are dating, 7 months isn't long enough to get a real understanding of someone or their past...maybe this will help...
I never intentionally meant to sleep with 15 guys, but with a combination of having low self confidence and being pretty, it just sort of happened. I know people are going to think this is ludicrous that im telling your this, but I am being truthfull. I seeked validation from sex. He likes me enough to sleep with me, ....that's a good thing. You don't know all the reasons she slept with her ex's and frankly you shouldn't. I would never share my sexual past with my boyfriends. Sure I'll say.."I've had sex" but it stops there, it's no ones business, get checked for STD's,..you can be curious if she was pregnant...but amount of sexual partners? Not your business? Why you ask? because you don't know the circumstances involved. Never had a one night stand? so what? What gives you the right to judge her one having one? Maybe you don't know her reasons behind it? Maybe she was beyond plastered (not an excuse, but a realistic possibility) and it just sort of happened. Maybe she has had a series of short term relationships...and sleeps with people early on.
When i was around 20 by brother told me the statmenet "who is going to buy the cow when they get the milk for free?"...this is true, but i had never thought of it that way. I would use excuses such as "sex is meaningless to me, it is a feeling, i like the feeling so i do it" Is there somethign wrong with doing somethign that feels good if you do it in a healthy way? Well that's a matter of personal opinion.
I will tell you this though. I dated a guy for four years who i slept with on the first day. A year later he told me "i am surprised i dated you after that,...i normally wouldn't date girls i slept with so early on"....when we broke up..i started dating a guy and made it a point to wait A VERY LONG TIME....and truthfully, this relationship is the best i've ever had. I'll never sleep with someone early on in a relationship again,...somthing to think about....let me know what you think....
Originally Posted by ACHTUNG
OV's head is going to explode when he reads that. ^
Yes, he said he was in a relationship with all of the women he slept with, but maybe he considers a 3 day thing a relationship. Who knows! Yes I would also be concerned about her past, but I would still give her a chance, maybe she has grown since then.Originally Posted by NeoSeminole
Yeah. But when I do it, it's cool. When you do it, it's just annoying.Originally Posted by Bluevetteracer
Speak less. Say more.
Thanks for your reply. Yes, I have come to the conclusion that I will wipe the slate clean. I'm not going to judge her. It will only lead to a failed relationship. I'm going to have to trust her and see what happens. I do love her and I can truly say that she feels the same way toward me. So I'll take my chances and I think we'll be just fine.Originally Posted by ruth
Thanks to everyone except whaywardj and misombra because your posts were completely unproductive.
Last edited by ACHTUNG; 12-11-05 at 12:26 AM.
me?
fine then. jk.
that's the best choice, i think.
alright! hayward and i unite once again!!!
Wow, you're fast on the replies. Do you live on this forum?Originally Posted by misombra
Originally Posted by ACHTUNG
good one!Originally Posted by ACHTUNG
Hey, careful guy.
Don't mess with our boss-lady. Have you met the others who tried messing with her, yet?
Exactly.