the big "O"

[whaywardj]

The first time I climaxed during intercourse, I was sure I had peed on my partner *blush*... turns out that wasnt the case, but I didnt really know what I was doing or what to expect (a sex newbie at the time).

Hehe. One of my lover's HALLMARKS of a great orgasm was peeing a little when she came. Not a lot. Just a bit of a dribble one could easily notice. If she DIDN'T pee when she came, I knew she wasn't anywhere near finished...for the moment. Took some adjusting on my part. (Especially when giving her head.) First time it happened, wanting to help her feel comfortable about it, I said, while we lounged in the afterglow, "Wow. It must feel great to have a such a release." Evidentally unable to overcome her embarrassment over it, she had no comment.

None of which stopped either of us from always shooting for it thereafter.

[independent]

Dump him.

Period.

No questions asked.

You deserve real love. Compassion. To be respected.... and pleasured.

THAT is what a REAL relationship is all about!

[whaywardj]

Agreed. Lose the barbarian.

[independent]

Hehe. One of my lover's HALLMARKS of a great orgasm was peeing a little when she came. Not a lot. Just a bit of a dribble one could easily notice. If she DIDN'T pee when she came, I knew she wasn't anywhere near finished...for the moment. Took some adjusting on my part. (Especially when giving her head.) First time it happened, wanting to help her feel comfortable about it, I said, while we lounged in the afterglow, "Wow. It must feel great to have a such a release." Evidentally unable to overcome her embarrassment over it, she had no comment.

None of which stopped either of us from always shooting for it thereafter.

I've never actually "urinated" during intercourse (except that unfortunate time I was pregnant and the baby was sitting on my bladder LOL)...

Female Ejaculation is supposedly rare, which I think is a real shame. I dont know if its truly rare, or if the majority of women just dont get the pleasure of experiencing it. I am guessing that women who dont "ejaculate" during intercourse still "climax" (not the same as orgasm)?? But I dont know that either...

[whaywardj]

Female Ejaculation is supposedly rare, which I think is a real shame. I dont know if its truly rare, or if the majority of women just dont get the pleasure of experiencing it. I am guessing that women who dont "ejaculate" during intercourse still "climax" (not the same as orgasm)?? But I dont know that either...

Might want to check out this [URL=http://clusty.com/search?query=female+ejaculation]Google alternative[/URL].

[independent]

I assume that link was for everyone else reading along?

I'm not really all that interested in the clinical term or the studies on it either... I know how to get mine (LOL) so I'm good to go. Outside of my own experiences, I havent studied it at all... but I have been told it's very rare, or occurs in a small percentage of women. Told that by several people, so I assume that information is floating around out there somewhere...

[whaywardj]

Actually, it was meant far less to offer links to female ejaculation content than it was to introduce the search engine, Clusty, to those who may not be aware of it and are tired of Google's "paid listings" results.

[independent]

Ahh cool. Hadnt heard of it so I will check it out.

See if I can buy some listings on it too.

Haha - kidding