would this make you mad, jealous or both?

[Lloyd95]

Cool.
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[chelsee]

yes she showed her panties, while we were all sitting down drinking around the table. she asked me if it was o.k. and my bf said sure it is. so i was stuck sitting there kinda speechless. i laughed it off at the time but deep down i was mad as hell. i didn't see it as all fun and games cuz i take things seriously. i believe that if you really care about a person you won't do anything to ruin a good thing.

[Tone]

Which is why you should realize your b/f doesn't REALLY care about you as a person.

[Rosebud]

i didn't see it as all fun and games cuz i take things seriously. i believe that if you really care about a person you won't do anything to ruin a good thing.

Well obviously you have other problems in this relationship aside from just this. I'm going to try and find some of those threads to read up a little but in the meantime, if your having all these problems why are still with him?

And I take things seriously too, I'm just confident in my relationship that I know if one of my friends showed her undies for one, it would be for attention and two, that's as far as it would go. And I don't consider a guy looking at someone's panties when everyone is around to be ruining a relationship if that's what you meant by that. But if there is more to it and this is adding to the cake then I can see why you would be so upset!

EDIT: ok you have a lot of threads about an ex and and BF. Are they the same person?

And Get rid of this guy ASAP!

[vashti]

Get rid of your slutty friend, too.

[funsounds]

And I take things seriously too, I'm just confident in my relationship that I know if one of my friends showed her undies for one, it would be for attention and two, that's as far as it would go. And I don't consider a guy looking at someone's panties when everyone is around to be ruining a relationship if that's what you meant by that. But if there is more to it and this is adding to the cake then I can see why you would be so upset!

that's what i was trying to say earlier! it's just no big deal in most cases!

[Mish]

I think chelsee is either a masochist, a martyr or she thinks she can't do better