Asking out on AIM

[jane]

Originally posted by LightOn
I said it once I'll say it again, you post on a PUBLIC forum you WILL get a PUBLIC opinion, if you don't like it then don't post.

exactly my point...

if you can't deal with that.. your even more of a moron then I thought.

[IntnseMarkyMark]

Originally posted by Zekk_T_Strife
Can't you see? His name is INTENSE marky mark cause he EXPLODES when you talk to him.

Thank god someone understands it Well I'm done with that. As for mvp, thats fine if you dont like my approach. It isnt to be tossed around either, your very right. But here's the thing, I was just trying to say that I did do that, it worked cause I was seein her for a few weeks and it brings a semi-romantic feel. This is the route to take if you want a fluffy relationship-shit take to things. If you want to get in her pants/etc then no, dont do it. Your right in that case dont buy em presents n shit. Since then I have changed my ways. I'm no longer a "nice guy". That role is ****ing hell, and I will not go back. I wont pamper bitches, and the majority of girls that way- naive and dont know what the hell they want. Girls care to argue that? Go for it. I will sit here and laugh my ass off at the response I'm sure to be getting. I await to hear I'm even "more of a moron that before" or "I have no clue" etc. I dont care, I've changed my approach since that time, now I go from girl to girl as [you] live week to week. Not bragging of course, I have little I could brag about, but just stating. So that advice, I suppose, was ill-fated and should be left in a sappy romantic '30s movie. Whatev But what was true of what I said- ask out in person. Do it where ever, school, a coffee shop, your car, anywhere, anywhere but online or the phone. Its so cheesy. BTY Jane, whats your problem with me? I say that in all calmness and seriousness, and not defensively. Honetly I was just TRYing to help the kid out, failed, and hopefully rewarded myself with the aforementioned bullshit I just sped out.

[IntnseMarkyMark]

Originally posted by jane
oh your so right.. after all I am a 13 year old boy! YOU HAVE N SENSE OF CHARACTER! You came on to this forum with an attitude .. you get it back and you melt down.. whatever man .. grow up.. everyone is entitled to thier own opinion.

BTW... why would I like a date that you broke up with me for? hhmm...

Sitting here confused on that, haha. Srry, please explain yourself on "BTW... why would I like a date that you broke up with me for? hhmm... " I didnt get that, call me an idiot whatev. Just embellish your point so I can see what you mean.

[IntnseMarkyMark]

Originally posted by MVPlaya
Mark,

No offense but I think that that is some pretty bad advice. My advice to guys out there is to NEVER buy presents before or during the first date. Every guy w/o a clue before you has tried that so why should the chick pick you if you're like every other guy? Hollywood movies don't work, you gotta be a challenge and show her that you're not "sold" about her, she's gotta prove herself to you.

Argh, I skipped this response, didnt see it You are right. But so was I in that case- we had been hanging out/seeing eachother for about a month, so this wasnt a first date or anything like that. This was to make things official, and I wanted a Hollywood movie-style prospect. But the challenge aspect you speak of is genious and true. I now see some of my mistakes, CHALLENGE. Be a Challenge. Sorry, just trying to hit that in my head, bad memory these days. Hope I clarified myself on the aformentioned

[jane]

Originally posted by IntnseMarkyMark
Sitting here confused on that, haha. Srry, please explain yourself on "BTW... why would I like a date that you broke up with me for? hhmm... " I didnt get that, call me an idiot whatev. Just embellish your point so I can see what you mean.

ok.. look.. i was trying to relate to your date. You said she was boring and it didn't last? the date itself was fine buthte way it ended sucked thats why I said it was lame.. You jumpled to concusions!
sorry man

[IntnseMarkyMark]

Ohh ok ok I see what you sayin Yea... I mean I dunno, I think everyone misinterpreted me, cause when I did this, it doesnt qualify as a date. I went to her house, asked her to be my gf, and taht was it. I left. We were already freinds, benefits, etc this was just to be exclusive I guess. So everyone thought it was a droned out date.... no no, sorry people. And I broke up with her 2 weeks later cause I soon saw an extreme immaturity she had. So... if it helps thats how it was

[jane]

ok .. truce?

[IntnseMarkyMark]

Originally posted by jane
ok .. truce?

truce

[jane]

cool.. peace bro!