hello hello

[daiza]

Maybe not one year, maybe as soon as 12 months!


Well you may say it in 6 weeks depending on how much in love you were........but definitely in 12 months

in love? well, i was...now i am angry...angry for the time that i have lost dreaming...there was an illusion and i am angry that i didn't figure that out, sooner...

He stoped calling, i have no sign from him and i now it is ok, but it is not, damn it....nothing it is ok now, i am angry, angry, angry....

[Gigabitch]

You lost him. Even if he was as bad as gum on your shoe, it's still a loss.

The seven stages of loss:

(1) Shock or Disbelief that the loss has occured.
(2) Denial is the stage in which the person refuses to accept the loss has occured.
(3) In the Bargaining stage, the person attempts to reconcile the loss by making deals with other people, sometimes also with Diety.
(4) Guilt is marked by statements of "if only I had done/been . . . ".
(5) Anger is a natural stage everyone must pass. Anger may be directed toward the loss, the person lost, or even Diety.
(6) Depression is a stage that comes and goes throughout the grief process. Resignation at the end of the depression indicates that the truth of the loss has been accepted and the person is ready to move on.
(7) Acceptance and Hope means that you understand your life will never be the same but it will go on with meaning and hope.

I think your recovery is coming along nicely, Daiza.

[derm]

in love? well, i was...now i am angry...angry for the time that i have lost dreaming...there was an illusion and i am angry that i didn't figure that out, sooner...

He stoped calling, i have no sign from him and i now it is ok, but it is not, damn it....nothing it is ok now, i am angry, angry, angry....

Angry is good!.........there would be something really wrong with you if you weren't. You obviously gave the relationship 110% and are annoyed with yourself that you didn't see his faults sooner.

Surely it's better to have had the experience. And besides wouldn't it be alot worse if you had been married, had had a morgage/kids togethor.

At least when the 'right' guy comes along you'll appreciate him more because you'll have experience the bad.

Get his photo enlarged and throw darts at him!

[daiza]

You lost him. Even if he was as bad as gum on your shoe, it's still a loss.

The seven stages of loss:

(1) Shock or Disbelief that the loss has occured.
(2) Denial is the stage in which the person refuses to accept the loss has occured.
(3) In the Bargaining stage, the person attempts to reconcile the loss by making deals with other people, sometimes also with Diety.
(4) Guilt is marked by statements of "if only I had done/been . . . ".
(5) Anger is a natural stage everyone must pass. Anger may be directed toward the loss, the person lost, or even Diety.
(6) Depression is a stage that comes and goes throughout the grief process. Resignation at the end of the depression indicates that the truth of the loss has been accepted and the person is ready to move on.
(7) Acceptance and Hope means that you understand your life will never be the same but it will go on with meaning and hope.

I think your recovery is coming along nicely, Daiza.

tks giga,very interesting....

god, how can i skip depression??? i see is the next...

[daiza]

Angry is good!.........there would be something really wrong with you if you weren't. You obviously gave the relationship 110% and are annoyed with yourself that you didn't see his faults sooner.

Surely it's better to have had the experience. And besides wouldn't it be alot worse if you had been married, had had a morgage/kids togethor.

At least when the 'right' guy comes along you'll appreciate him more because you'll have experience the bad.

Get his photo enlarged and throw darts at him!

good ideea with darts))i'll try...

in fact, i need a lobectomia for not thinking any more...some electroshocks or something to wash my brain with the memory of the last 9 months....

[derm]

good ideea with darts))i'll try...

in fact, i need a lobectomia for not thinking any more...some electroshocks or something to wash my brain with the memory of the last 9 months....

I heard this from a tecy guy down the pub that aparently we all have a USB socket at the back of our heads, as standard....(somewhere under our hair)

Aparently.....aparently now!...(he is still working on it) You can hook your computer up via USB cable and upload, download, rewrite or reboot the whole brain system!

You live and learn

[daiza]

I heard this from a tecy guy down the pub that aparently we all have a USB socket at the back of our heads, as standard....(somewhere under our hair)

Aparently.....aparently now!...(he is still working on it) You can hook your computer up via USB cable and upload, download, rewrite or reboot the whole brain system!

You live and learn

i need a format C:yes

[derm]

i need a format C:yes

Have you found yours Daiza?

[daiza]

Have you found yours Daiza?

still searching, still searching...) lol

[King Zarathu]

Open up the command prompt and type "format C:"

>.>

[Kiechi]

Open up the command prompt and type "format C:"

>.>

ROFL.



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