man & pornography?

[Gigabitch]

I disagree. Porn doesn't compare to the physical and emotional intimacy one can have with another.

Exactly. In fact, I'm thinking that guys who are satisfied by porn are probably not going to be very good at satisfying a real woman, because they don't need or fully understand the many different levels of connection that are to be had.

Some people really achieve intimacy, and some just masturbate on top of another human being.

Now I sound like damoclesejones. How did that happen?

[King Zarathu]

I'm going to pornography you in the ass.

[Junket]

I'm going to pornography you in the ass.

I don't have a ****in' clue what that's supposed to mean, but it was hilarious.

[Gigabitch]

Zarathu, it's time for your laser colonoscopy. I will be your nurse.

[Henry123]

i'm skeptical about those figures there. i think men get more satisfaction out of sex, even if it isn't fun for the woman.

I'm not sure if its been read correctly???? (I dont mean that in an offensive way or anything like that). Best to check out the site instead.

[King Zarathu]

I'm not sure if its been read correctly???? (I dont mean that in an offensive way or anything like that). Best to check out the site instead.

You are wrong.

[Zach]

When I first turned 13 or so I was introduced to the world of Porn, and I was very excited. I was aroused like crazy by it. 2 Years later I met my first real girlfriend, and I only ever saw her twice. We only talked on the phone and we grew to love each other. We were young and happy. After a while things didn't work out and we never saw each other so we moved on. This was my first experience with emotional love and the world of females.

My second serious relationship started immediately afterwards and for the first time I was sexual with a real person. It was by far, more arousing than porn. Meanwhile through out all of this I had been watching porn also. After a while me and her split for various reasons and I continued to look at porn.

Then I finally met the girl I just lost. This time, I felt true love for the first time. I felt what it could be and can only imagine what it could have been in years to come. I loved her like nothing in my life, I loved so hard I cried. I simply was in awe of the intimacy and connection between us. After experiencing an intimacy like this I look at porn now and I am disgusted. Pornography is sex without intimacy and intimacy itself in the depths I felt are 90% of the satisfaction alone. Learn to love and connect with the person you love. Intimacy can go so much deeper than I even know Im sure and after feeling it I will never be the same.

[Gigabitch]

See, right now, that's just completely Go#@amn inconvenient for me. I'm male, I've got hormones, but I sure as hell don't have the time or money to get in a real relationship I simply can't devote resources I don't have. It's something I eventually want to do, but right now, sex without attachment is about all the indulgence I can afford.

I have yet to hear from a girl that the NSA thing works for after any amount of time has passed. The ones who say they're into it are young and emotionally reckless.
How long does it usually last, Aegis?

[Sami09]

from what i read its sounds like nobody in here have a problem with porn thats a good things guys. I agree with that fact that porn would cause problem if she think that is what sex is suppose to be like honestly its not like that.

[King Zarathu]

*from what *i read it*s sound*s like nobody in here ha*ve a problem with porn *that*s a good thing*s guys. I agree with that fact that porn would cause problem* if she think* that is what sex is suppose* to be like * honestly it*s not like that.

I was going to add them up and tell you how many the total was, but I'm ****ing lazy to count.

[Junket]

Intimacy can go so much deeper than I even know Im sure and after feeling it I will never be the same.

Hey, somebody give this guy a "Hopeless" t-shirt!

[Henry123]

Yes Henry, but what does that have to do with whether or not one uses pornography to excess, particularly when they have a partner for sex?

For a number of things.
1) Because the partner is unable or unwilling to fulfill some of the sexual fantasies and fetishes that her partner desires. In the back of his mind he knows that some women out there in the world is/can/willing to fulfill those fetishers & fantasies.

2) Also his partner may not have the body he desires. (like large breast or she ages, gets wrinkles, gain weight, breasts sags etc). Having sex with strangers is another common fantasy among males. Also having variety of different looking women is also another fantasy.

3) Another is that a guy doesnt have to deal with: "not tonight dear" "I have a headache". With porn he can indulge in fantasies where ever and whenever he chooses.

4) One of the reasons (of course there are other reasons as well) why men go to strippers is because he doesnt have to deal with a nagging partner, a partner that constantly complains, have hissy fits, say negatives things about him, etc. A stripper would never do those things to a patron if she wants to continue to work. The same thing with porn. Theres no negative associastion with watching a naked women who isnt yelling, having hissy fits and complaining to him. He doesnt have to deal with that. No commitment etc.

From a male perspective.

[Henry123]

i'm skeptical about those figures there. i think men get more satisfaction out of sex, even if it isn't fun for the woman. then of course they wouldn't be thinking about it as much because they're perhaps not getting satisfaction from it. there may be some difference but i don't think it's that big of one.

You are wrong.

Huh? What do you mean?????

I'm not seeing where its talking about which sex gets 'more satisfaction from sex'? I'm reading which sex is having more 'sexual fantasies'. ?????

[Gigabitch]

Theres no negative associastion with watching a naked women who isnt yelling, having hissy fits and complaining to him. He doesnt have to deal with that.

At least, not until he gets home and his woman finds out where he's been all night.

[Henry123]

At least, not until he gets home and his woman finds out where he's been all night.

LOL! Thats funny!