Dear John, Confused

[Gigabitch]

You must practice NO CONTACT. You cannot be friends with this person. That is all.

[invisableflames]

I am reading your responses. I just hate this. I do appreciate all your help.

[Mathias]

I am reading your responses. I just hate this. I do appreciate all your help.

Go read my threads in this forum.

I went through the EXACT same thing. I updated pretty frequently.

I got over it very well. Hopefully that can help you.

[The Great OV!!!]

Some of the advice that people are giving you is horrible.

[vashti]

So says the guy that's been stuck on the same girl since... when? Was it junior high?

Anyway, there isn't anything that will help when a person is committed to maintaining the emotional fantasy. After all, moving on - even in your head - means that you have given up hope for this relationship, and some people need to have that hope remain intact.